Soo disappointed by the users of this site so far.

Why have a profile just to fill it with fake pictures? Guys, maybe some of the girls would actually add you if there weren't so many of you acting like dbags..wtf?? Was kinda hoping to actually talk w/ some users, but it appears as if most of the profiles I've come across are either fake or not accepting males. WAYTOB. DEEZLE, OUT.

Published by tanom81

14 years ago

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anthony_weston 11 years ago

I don't use fake pics. I have this art avatar which is more about the inner life. Maybe one day I'll just do a nice photo like you two have but probably not. I put up some litle bits and pieces shots to just give people some idea of what I look like. That's my current comfort level with it. It's nice to see what other singles and couples have done. Some of the couples profiles are the best on the site.

anthony_weston 11 years ago

to lilith10 : Everytime I catch up with a comment of yours it is just so well written. This one you put up here two years ago and it's one of the best comments on any blog I've seen anywhere on this site. I'm going to be doing a blog, I think, (it's draft off-line) about my whole experience with with all this cybersexual stuff. You inspire me to even stay around on this thing for more than just watching the porn. Thank you for YOUR comment

really!

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zombie8 12 years ago

I like to have fun here and I try not to get into altercations with other users but I can't stand the bozos that order cam performers to do this and that. And the Spammers in the cam rooms are endless. Aside from that it's a cool community here. I used to have pics of myself up but I have never been too keen on putting my own image out on the web. I like to think my profile is at least fun to visit if anything. I have a few vids up and some various galleries that I think are cool.And yeah I don't like the fake profiles that use known models and pretend it's them. We are not idiots.We know who is who in the industry.

crazygears 12 years ago

hit the nail on the head there

mikey1ra 12 years ago

i whole heartedly agree

I would put my pics up if there was a way for me to make it so just my "friends" could see the album. The way it's set up now either all pics I upload are for friends only or none of them are. I'm very real but also need some level of discretion.

Rock on!!! Well put! Fakers are a waste of oxygen!!!

good blog

lilith10 13 years ago

Though I do understand why many users on this site would be fake, I agree with you that it is annoying and disappointing at times. Since there are so many of us that wish to live out our fantasies through the second lives we create online, I can understand the impulse to transform ourselves into something we are not. I get the impression from many of the "women" that I chat with that they are either closeted trannies or men who simply don't realize that they have a feminine side that is finding an outlet through their pretending to be women. Whatever the case, the anonymity of this site allows for users to become sexually what they could never be in real life. I don't blame them for that.

But I agree with you that it is always a bummer to come across fakers. To me, this site allows me not so much to pretend who I am not, but to actually be much more candid and honest about who I truly am. The same anonymity that allows others to lie, I find, allows me to be more honest than I can in my daily life. On this site I can indulge in the hardcore sexual acts I would never talk about with my girl friends. On this site I can admit to, without persecution, to the sexual tryst I had with one of my subordinates. And on this site I may talk with other women who are actively exploring their lesbian side without worrying about being labeled. In other words, I find this site as an opportunity to be honest and free, not fake.... except about my age : ) I'm not turning thirty for at least another fifteen to twenty years lol.

For attention obviously... but yeah I have to agree at least in part. Fakes are a big part of online life (not to mention real life) - yeah its stupid but its not going to stop. Not accepting males is fair enough if you never want to interact them - although people saying that would almost have to accept no 'women' either. Alot of people don't want to show themselves and for good reason - and its not like alot of cock pics is showing yourself either.

MetalHands 13 years ago

there are fakers everywhere not just online, the world just kinda sucks sometimes, but there is hope

dplover552 14 years ago

I've been using this website for watching videos and pictures for some time - just recently have signed up. I have to say so far it has been pretty cool talking to people from around the world who are like minded when it comes to porn - discussing different styles of sex and learning from others mistakes. Not too sure I really care if all my friends are female or not. To me sharing the pictures and videos I've collected over the years with others is cool to me. But right now (I may change my mind in the future), it is not about showing my cock (or my wife's pussy) off to the world.

lcra44 14 years ago

I agree completely!! People should have authentic profiles. What's up? I came around checking if u had some new pics, maybe we should upload also some. See ya

spermshooter242 14 years ago

I friend anybody, as long as they're honest and not mean or judgmental. I'm a WYSIWYG kind of guy, ya know? No bullshit, no hidden agenda, just me. I have no room for people like that, especially here. Live and let live, will you please?

drumhellian 14 years ago

Very open and honest, I find it interesting that nearly all the avatars of Chinese and Arabic use porn stars or celebrities as their profile or avatar pics and wouldn't think people would know.