FRIENDS

While I believe you can never have enough friends, when it got over 50, I decided not to accept any more friends. I like to interact with my friends and I don't see how that's possible if your friends number in the hundreds or thousands.

With some I think it's a numbers game, as one bragged about reaching the 5000 limit. Why? Most of my friends share similar interests, but I've also chosen a few that have some that are widely different to have diverse point of view.

I hope I haven't offended anyone, and I may change my mind in the future, but right now, it's important to keep in touch with the friends I have.

Published by drwho6

12 years ago

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nadia877 9 years ago

You might enjoy my post from today on this topic: http://xhamster.com/user/nadia877/posts/436909.html

LoveOlderLadies 10 years ago

I agree with what you say. I decline LOTS more than I accept. I try to only accept friends that share the same intrests, (mature/grannies) and NOBODY that has NO content. I, right now, think I have way too many. I need to start culling. Stay true to your standards, and thank you for posting Granny blasters.

anon8101 11 years ago

5000 friends is just vanity more than function. I personally view the friends deal as a combination of things that differ from user to user. Some people don't understand that subscribing to my uploads will show them new uploads too. Some people want the status, looking at it sort of like a safari-ish thing where having added a bunch of people that upload content is some cool shit. Some people are not people at all but bots looking to exploit something I still don't understand. Whatever the reason, I set two guidelines for my profile when I made it a couple months ago. 1. Potential friends need to have uploads, though there is leeway regarding whether that's vids, photos, blogs, stories, or any combination. 2. In lieu or in addition, potential friends should attempt interact, even if just through commenting on some of my uploads or on my profile comment section. Ideally, but not a requirement is a non-penis profile photo and photo/video uploads. The idea behind that being that seeing another guy jerk-off does nothing for me as the gayest I go is for cute traps/trannies preferably as bottoms in the scene with a guy or as tops with a girl. My personal sex life has been limited to chubby/fat girls though, so I'm a trap/tranny virgin, which may partially explain why so many of my friends on here fall in that category.

drwho6 Publisher 11 years ago

to mike0207 : Thanks for your comment. Many of the people on this page are either friends or persons I have a lot of contact with. As you have put it there a few friends I have close ties with and others who aren't officially friends, but I communicate with more with than some of my actual friends. A few of the Diamonds are this page, people not afraid of offending me by offering ideas or constructive criticism. One in particular became a friend after many communications and realizing how much we had in common.

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mike0207 11 years ago

In real life you mostly a few friends that you are close with and trust and a great number of people that you know and like. I think it's the same with Xhamster. There are a few that I would regret to loose and others that I have good chats with but not a real personal touch(yet). But I still find it a challenge to find those "diamonds" between 5.7 million users. Good friends will always be hard to find.

strauss1 11 years ago

I reckon about 95% of the 'users' on this web site are male; like myself. Yet some claim to be female. Ask yourself " do I really want to be associated with them"? Let them fool each other, the tossers. SAD REALLY & they should get out more. Have no idea what others think My policy in life is to; 'Merely respect others, as they respect me'. The policy has worked for me for years & I have met people in numerous countries.

biorgium 12 years ago

Re Friends, for me quality trumps quantity. I decline far more requests than I accept, and that doesn't bother me. What gets me is the number of requests from people who couldn't even be bothered to read my profile first.

kevinthe1st 12 years ago

Understandable. I am a Dr. Who fan, and I thought it would be nice to chat about some of the companions that he should have fucked.

It is a somewhat difficult balance, I think. Although I can follow your argumentation totally, I also try be open towards others, accepting friend request from people, who just have some sort of uploads on their profile. The downside is - no wonder - a lot of requests to look at. And several are declined!

At this time of writing, I have closed for more requests for the same reason.

strauss1 12 years ago

You certainly have NOT offended me. In fact the opposite often applies, as you have been rather helpful to me in the past. It's certainly not forgotten & Thank you.

anrianri 12 years ago

nice

fukthaworld88 12 years ago

i dont look at it as a contest. i usually only accept friend invites who have left comments or have tha same taste in porn. but i dont really care what they are into as long as they at least have an avatar.

danser79 12 years ago

Well, its nice to be in contact with a friend.