Too Tight ?

I am a small asian girl. Married still but not much experience with love making .
My husband is a workaholic and often travels to Europe leaving me alone. We have had no children and
our love making has been nothing to speak of . He comes home from his trips and makes love to me from the back
He pushes his penis into the back of my vagina and it is so quick...that it is hardly enjoyable at all. After my husband ejaculates he leaves the room and there is no emotion or tenderness in how he treats me .

Sooo. I have been looking for alternatives and despite my catholic upbringing and the fact that I am still married , I have been seeing some guys from work and from church once in a while. They treat me well and say all the important things. They say I am pretty and sweet and how nice it would be to get together for coffee some time.

Well I gave in and I ended up making love to a guy from church yesterday. He was a young guy and very charming and sweet.

I let him undress me and take me to bed and let him come on top of me . He removed my white cotton panties
and fingered me ; I was so wet .

He asked if he could come inside of me and I nodded . I felt his hard cock push into the front of my vagina
and it felt so good. Then he started muttering and I heard him say that I "was too tight". Wasn't sure what that meant, so I arched my bottom and pushed towards his cock and felt it slide in deeper, but still not so deep ; I wondered...

He stopped and said again that I was too tight ... I told him it was ok and that he was not hurting me . I said I might be tight because I have never had children before . He seemed to understand.

I arched my back some more and felt him go deeper inside. I asked him if that was ok ? and he muttered and said that he loved me.
Going with the moment I became more aroused and begin to have an orgasm . I was silent tho ... but he felt my convulsion
and then he couldn't hold back any longer and began to ejaculate inside of me. It felt good and warm and he seemed to enjoy himself despite the fact that "I was too tight'. Wondering now if I am too tight and what can I do about that ?

Not sure I will see him again, but as I write this his semen is still dripping from my vulva . I have put a white sanitary pad to catch
it . I hope I am not pregnant, but I think this is a safe time of month for that .

Anyway, that is my story.

Mary