Are YOU 'FAITHFULL' to ONE Person??

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Are YOU 'FAITHFULL' to ONE Person even though YOU have multiple partners for SEX??

So are you and why???

And yes before any complaints.. My own reply might just be me rambling on as usual and this time I may even finish it!!?

Reason for the question..
Last night I was saying goodnight to my gorgeous GF Jill..as you do..on the phone! When she asked me "are you faithfull to me". An odd question, and the answer was obviously YES!!
BUT I had a bit of a sleepless night thinking about that.

So answer the question??

My own view being, apart from 'WHY WOULD SHE ASK THAT', is its complicated!!

FFS we both have multiple partners..girls and guys..sometimes shared..sometimes alone with others.. sometimes without express 'permission ' of the other, so how on earth could I, would I say YES in the first place??
So I think it's because Jill makes me HAPPY! not just pleased, but ecstatic about life, myself about her, everything!
Can I say BJ..before Jill?? Life was a bit of a chore..work..play..sex..boyfriends..domestic stuff.. with a big void..something missing??..just didn't realise until later.. Parkrun every Saturday was a highlight because SHE was there, telling us those naughty stories of her exploits that caused her marriage breakup. So when I got invited back to her place for 'coffee' I probably knew where it might just be for!
Wasn't wrong! and so here we are a year down the line still together, still fucking anyone that might take our fancy or who just say they fancy us.. Not talking about Max or Toby or Pylyp on a public post but some of you may already know about our other fetish by now??.
Things are so MUCH brighter now..in focus..obvious.. LIFES SHORT ENJOY IT WHILE YOU CAN!
sod the system it was always a barrier.. Just DON'T hurt anyone or anything!

Published by Concordski

1 year ago

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Concordski Publisher 3 months ago

to alexolo : We do too..multiple partners plus being faithful to each other.. Mind you we do an awful lot of talking through situations we have been in..are in🤔..and yes the danger mentioned is always present..but thats life🤔.. Grab it all when you can we arent here for long😞😞

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alexolo 3 months ago

Yes faithfull is more of a spiritual/emotional thing. But like priest have to show their faith in god by staying single, in the West we have decided the norm is monogamy as a way to show that faith. I do get that getting close to someone always brings on the danger of falling for a new partner, or waking up insecurity within the current partner, so we need this token to present prove this. But I do believe in multiple partners and being faithful at the same time. Even if not for everyone

_CheshireCat_ 1 year ago

This is a huge can of worms! Monogamous, polyamorous, swinging - Whatever the dynamic of your relationship is, so long as you're not deceiving anyone you should be free to do whatever makes you happy. It sounds like you really have feelings for Jill, I do wonder why she would ask that. I hope it's because she feels the same about you and you can assure her you are faithful.

justfarmdoghank 1 year ago

ok.. so the short quick answer.. You just know .. if you are having doubts,, about how you are feeling . believe your gut reaction .. running it on simple ,"no over thinking" sort of self analyses... that is the answer.. ( in this case.. it sounded like a surprise. so you have your natural reaction and answer.. Oh ..and you are the only one with your answer. trust yourself and keep going forward.. )