Sacred Spot Massage
The G-Spot or Sacred Spot of a man is his prostate gland. Tantric
philosophy considers the G-Spot a man's emotional sex center.
Massaging the man's prostate releases tremendous amounts of emotional
and physical stress. Coupled with stimulation of his penis or
"lingam", massaging his prostate can be extremely pleasurable and
healing to the man. Since the most direct way to massage the man's
Sacred Spot is through his anus, it takes time to adjust to being
penetrated in this way. It is not for every man. The benefits are many
and the pleasure can be very intense. For tantric partners, lovers or
those otherwise genuinely comfortable with one another, massaging the
sacred spot can be a powerful experience. Not only in terms of
ecstatic pleasure for the "receiver", but in the sexual empowerment it
bestows on the “giver".
The walnut sized prostate gland is located directly underneath the
bladder, not far from the internal root of the penis (see diagram). As
can be seen, the gland is in close proximity to the rectal wall,
allowing for easy access through the anus.
Why is prostate massage pleasurable? There are number of reasons:
Ejaculation reflex sensation
No matter which method is used it is not possible to touch the
prostate directly. The nearest indirect access is through the rectal
wall, which means that there is still a membrane in the way. This is
somewhat akin to the inhibiting sensitivity a glove. Despite this
restriction the lobes of the prostrate are highly sensitive to
pressure. An array of sensations may be produced by pressing, rubbing
or by means of stroking the gland through the rectal wall. The most
profound of these feelings is similar to that sublime sensation which
is normally felt during ejaculation, as the prostate begins pumping
semen.
Anal sensitivity
Along with the genital areas, the anus is connected to and interwoven
with millions of delicately sensitive nerve endings, which can yield
most pleasurable sensations.
Hidden penis
Unknown to most, over one third of the penis is buried inside the
body. It is the base of the (hidden) penis which may be pressured in a
similar manner as the prostate. The effect of stimulating all three
can be awesome, if done in concert with genital stimulation. Still
more overwhelming than the physiological effects is the psychological
aspect of prostate massage, due to the unaccustomed nature of
penetration of the receiver.
Psychological high
As powerful as physiological stimulation might be, it pales when
compared to the immeasurably greater psychological or mental high. The
very notion of the male placing himself into such a vulnerable
position, results in a powerful mental rush, for both receiver as well
giver. The willingness of the naturally controlling male to allow
himself to placed in an unaccustomed submissive role, should be
particularly cherished by the giver.
Preparation
As in any intimate activity, certain basic rules apply. The receiver
should be meticulously clean. The giver should have available form
fitting latex surgical gloves (not the loose fitting variety). It's
desirable for a number of reasons to use gloves, of which the first
and foremost benefit is to protect the delicate anal membranes from
sharp fingernails and rough skin. Secondly, a well lubricated rubber
surface will glide more easily than exposed skin. Lubrication should
be water based, such as K-Y jelly.
Taking a hot bath or shower prior to the massage is a good way to
relax. While bathing the receiver will find it pleasurable to begin to
fanaticize in anticipation of the experience to come.
Positions
Face to face (for greater intimacy)
After completely undressing the receiver should assume a seated
position; his back reclined and supported by large firm pillows (at
about a 45 - 65 degree angle). His knees pulled in the direction of
his chest and somewhat angled outward. The resulting position should
be both comfortable for the receiver, as well as allowing the giver
unobstructed view and unfettered access to the anus and genitals of
the receiver. The giver may sit cross legged, or kneel in front of the
receiver.
As a way to relax the receiver, the giver may begin by massaging the
receivers lower extremities, particularly the abdomen. Initially, the
receiver may choose to relax by closing his eyes, but as the massage
progresses it is of great importance that the receiver and giver
maintain eye contact.
It will be up to the giver to decide when the receiver is sufficiently
relaxed and aroused. At this time the giver should unobtrusively slip
on a glove and to begin lubricating the receivers anus. The
lubrication process should be lengthy and ceremonial. Beginning with
circular motions, stroking the anal opening. The objective is to
pleasure and relax the nervous rosebud.
The giver should "never" poke the anus with the tip of the finger, but
to gently and firmly apply pressure with the pad of the finger.
Continuously add lubrication; there can never be too much lubrication!
When the anus is ready it will allow the finger to enter. All that is
needed is time and patience.
Remarkably, when the moment comes the giver will notice that the
finger will seem to be drawn into the anus. Once the finger has been
allowed to enter it is best to be still allowing the anal sphincters
the chance to become accustomed to the intrusion. It will not be a
good idea for the giver to move their finger in and out of the anus.
There should only be one reason for the giver to remove the finger,
and this would be to add more lubrication.
The giver is now ready to seek out the prostate: this can easily
accomplished by crooking the inserted finger upwards, and feeling for
a "roundish" to oblong protrusion about 2 inches inside the rectum.
Applying pressure to the prostate will provide a variety of
sensations, the most desirable of which is the feeling of impending
ejaculation. By applying more or less pressure to the gland, the giver
will be able to control these sensations; even to the point of
inhibiting the receiver from ejaculating. The ability to control
ejaculation through prostate massage, allows for nearly unending
stimulation of the receiver's genitals. The penis may be massaged by
the giver, or by receiver himself, to a point of near ejaculation.
Only to be kept on the brink by varying pressure on the prostate.
During the arousal cycle the giver may begin to rhythmically move the
inserted finger partially in and out, so as to stimulate the rich and
super sensitive nerve endings around the anus.
Eye contact is most desirable at the resolution phase of the
experience, with the receiver and giver gazing into one another's
eyes… various scenarios are now possible:
A. The giver will allow the receiver to masturbate himself to achieve
ejaculating. All the while the giver will be verbally encouraging the
receiver to the moment of climax.
B. The giver may masturbate the receiver's penis with one hand, while
massaging the receivers anal opening or prostate with the other. Both
giver and receiver should communicate intently, so as to allow the
greatest pleasure for the receiver.
C. The receiver may desire for the giver to “milk” his prostate,
without direct stimulation to the penis. To achieve this the giver
will gently stroke each lobe, resulting in a gentle flow of semen and
the emptying of the prostate through the erect or flaccid penis.
Facing "away" from the giver (a magnificent view for the giver)
In this position the receiver will be kneeling, knees apart, buttocks
elevated, while the elbows are resting on a firm surface, such as a
cushioned floor matt. This should be both a stable and comfortable
position for the receiver.
The giver may kneel or sit spread legged behind the receiver, having
easy access and a perfect view, of the receiver's anus. The giver will
also be in a position to reach between the receivers legs to allow
stimulation of the genitals.
From this point please follow the same procedure as in the face to face method.
philosophy considers the G-Spot a man's emotional sex center.
Massaging the man's prostate releases tremendous amounts of emotional
and physical stress. Coupled with stimulation of his penis or
"lingam", massaging his prostate can be extremely pleasurable and
healing to the man. Since the most direct way to massage the man's
Sacred Spot is through his anus, it takes time to adjust to being
penetrated in this way. It is not for every man. The benefits are many
and the pleasure can be very intense. For tantric partners, lovers or
those otherwise genuinely comfortable with one another, massaging the
sacred spot can be a powerful experience. Not only in terms of
ecstatic pleasure for the "receiver", but in the sexual empowerment it
bestows on the “giver".
The walnut sized prostate gland is located directly underneath the
bladder, not far from the internal root of the penis (see diagram). As
can be seen, the gland is in close proximity to the rectal wall,
allowing for easy access through the anus.
Why is prostate massage pleasurable? There are number of reasons:
Ejaculation reflex sensation
No matter which method is used it is not possible to touch the
prostate directly. The nearest indirect access is through the rectal
wall, which means that there is still a membrane in the way. This is
somewhat akin to the inhibiting sensitivity a glove. Despite this
restriction the lobes of the prostrate are highly sensitive to
pressure. An array of sensations may be produced by pressing, rubbing
or by means of stroking the gland through the rectal wall. The most
profound of these feelings is similar to that sublime sensation which
is normally felt during ejaculation, as the prostate begins pumping
semen.
Anal sensitivity
Along with the genital areas, the anus is connected to and interwoven
with millions of delicately sensitive nerve endings, which can yield
most pleasurable sensations.
Hidden penis
Unknown to most, over one third of the penis is buried inside the
body. It is the base of the (hidden) penis which may be pressured in a
similar manner as the prostate. The effect of stimulating all three
can be awesome, if done in concert with genital stimulation. Still
more overwhelming than the physiological effects is the psychological
aspect of prostate massage, due to the unaccustomed nature of
penetration of the receiver.
Psychological high
As powerful as physiological stimulation might be, it pales when
compared to the immeasurably greater psychological or mental high. The
very notion of the male placing himself into such a vulnerable
position, results in a powerful mental rush, for both receiver as well
giver. The willingness of the naturally controlling male to allow
himself to placed in an unaccustomed submissive role, should be
particularly cherished by the giver.
Preparation
As in any intimate activity, certain basic rules apply. The receiver
should be meticulously clean. The giver should have available form
fitting latex surgical gloves (not the loose fitting variety). It's
desirable for a number of reasons to use gloves, of which the first
and foremost benefit is to protect the delicate anal membranes from
sharp fingernails and rough skin. Secondly, a well lubricated rubber
surface will glide more easily than exposed skin. Lubrication should
be water based, such as K-Y jelly.
Taking a hot bath or shower prior to the massage is a good way to
relax. While bathing the receiver will find it pleasurable to begin to
fanaticize in anticipation of the experience to come.
Positions
Face to face (for greater intimacy)
After completely undressing the receiver should assume a seated
position; his back reclined and supported by large firm pillows (at
about a 45 - 65 degree angle). His knees pulled in the direction of
his chest and somewhat angled outward. The resulting position should
be both comfortable for the receiver, as well as allowing the giver
unobstructed view and unfettered access to the anus and genitals of
the receiver. The giver may sit cross legged, or kneel in front of the
receiver.
As a way to relax the receiver, the giver may begin by massaging the
receivers lower extremities, particularly the abdomen. Initially, the
receiver may choose to relax by closing his eyes, but as the massage
progresses it is of great importance that the receiver and giver
maintain eye contact.
It will be up to the giver to decide when the receiver is sufficiently
relaxed and aroused. At this time the giver should unobtrusively slip
on a glove and to begin lubricating the receivers anus. The
lubrication process should be lengthy and ceremonial. Beginning with
circular motions, stroking the anal opening. The objective is to
pleasure and relax the nervous rosebud.
The giver should "never" poke the anus with the tip of the finger, but
to gently and firmly apply pressure with the pad of the finger.
Continuously add lubrication; there can never be too much lubrication!
When the anus is ready it will allow the finger to enter. All that is
needed is time and patience.
Remarkably, when the moment comes the giver will notice that the
finger will seem to be drawn into the anus. Once the finger has been
allowed to enter it is best to be still allowing the anal sphincters
the chance to become accustomed to the intrusion. It will not be a
good idea for the giver to move their finger in and out of the anus.
There should only be one reason for the giver to remove the finger,
and this would be to add more lubrication.
The giver is now ready to seek out the prostate: this can easily
accomplished by crooking the inserted finger upwards, and feeling for
a "roundish" to oblong protrusion about 2 inches inside the rectum.
Applying pressure to the prostate will provide a variety of
sensations, the most desirable of which is the feeling of impending
ejaculation. By applying more or less pressure to the gland, the giver
will be able to control these sensations; even to the point of
inhibiting the receiver from ejaculating. The ability to control
ejaculation through prostate massage, allows for nearly unending
stimulation of the receiver's genitals. The penis may be massaged by
the giver, or by receiver himself, to a point of near ejaculation.
Only to be kept on the brink by varying pressure on the prostate.
During the arousal cycle the giver may begin to rhythmically move the
inserted finger partially in and out, so as to stimulate the rich and
super sensitive nerve endings around the anus.
Eye contact is most desirable at the resolution phase of the
experience, with the receiver and giver gazing into one another's
eyes… various scenarios are now possible:
A. The giver will allow the receiver to masturbate himself to achieve
ejaculating. All the while the giver will be verbally encouraging the
receiver to the moment of climax.
B. The giver may masturbate the receiver's penis with one hand, while
massaging the receivers anal opening or prostate with the other. Both
giver and receiver should communicate intently, so as to allow the
greatest pleasure for the receiver.
C. The receiver may desire for the giver to “milk” his prostate,
without direct stimulation to the penis. To achieve this the giver
will gently stroke each lobe, resulting in a gentle flow of semen and
the emptying of the prostate through the erect or flaccid penis.
Facing "away" from the giver (a magnificent view for the giver)
In this position the receiver will be kneeling, knees apart, buttocks
elevated, while the elbows are resting on a firm surface, such as a
cushioned floor matt. This should be both a stable and comfortable
position for the receiver.
The giver may kneel or sit spread legged behind the receiver, having
easy access and a perfect view, of the receiver's anus. The giver will
also be in a position to reach between the receivers legs to allow
stimulation of the genitals.
From this point please follow the same procedure as in the face to face method.
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