probably late. keep your head together. that's the best advise i can give. i fell completely apart during mine. didn't turn out well. hope all went ell for you.
Be sure to choose a lawyer VERY carefully, ideally a 'solo' practitioner who's an OH family law expert with a good # of years of experience, & NOT a big law firm: they're more expensive. Look up 'collaborative divorce' too. I'm a retired law professor.