Dirty Domme Wife and her subchub husband

I am now a gay male married to a 64 yo woman. Several years ago I came out to her and asked for permission to explore sex with men. She granted me permission to go gay. She then confided, that because of her lack of interest in fucking, and now this, she no longer desires me. We both agree that celibacy for her and homosexuality for me works for our marriage. We don't suck and fuck anymore and that's okay with me, I prefer homosexuality.