A note to all the frustrated husbands out there...

I was just having a conversation with a friend who was making complaints about sexual frustration. Something we both have in common and appears to crop up in conversation repeatedly amongst other friends here.
During the last conversation i found myself typing things I’d not actually been aware I have been doing.
A women's mind is just as controlled by their clitoris as a man’s mind is controlled by their cock.
A woman can wrap a man around her little finger by denying access to her pussy... And she knows it!
It is possible to turn the tables.
We all know it is not possible to deny a women access to our cock. We just don’t have the power to stop them!
We do, however, have the power to deny them their own clitoris.
We all masturbate!
Everyone, and I truly believe Everyone masturbates!
Im sure, just by speaking to a few guys here, that many husbands will be aware of their wives habits. Know a rough time they will likely relieve their sexual frustrations.
Try this:
Go to bed early with her;
Bring her breakfast in bed (and get back in bed to eat with her);
accidentally forget your wallet when you go to the store;
Tell her you have ordered something online to be delivered whilst your at work when she is home alone. (Whether you have ordered anything or not)
Do anything you can to deny her even one orgasm she had planned.
I almost guarantee you will know you have succeeded. Man, will she be angry!?!
For fucks sake, make sure you have done your chores. Pay for the weekly takeout. Buy her a random bunch of flowers, cook her favourite meal... Basically, give yourself the best chance possible of not getting stabbed!
None of this will get you laid anymore than you might normally expect.
Women have their needs too and believe me, they fulfil their needs just fine on their own.
What you will succeed in by denying at least one of her orgasms, is she will really enjoy her next one.
I have a cam setup ready to catch the moment and just for that brief moment, you were in control of her orgasm.
Its very empowering and I now know why women do it to us!
wouldn’t it be easier if we could just fuck each other to orgasm instead of playing these silly games...?
I guess life just isn’t that simple.

Published by Penny3thepound

4 years ago

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TomPeeper64 9 months ago

to boppizza : Sorry but they all do. Set up a cam and you will discover the truth. Good luck.

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TomPeeper64 1 year ago

I've fucked over 30 different women in my life. I always ask them if they masturbate (you need to pick a playful moment, perhaps after a few relaxing drinks and a satisfying meal to discuss it). Every single one said they did, some more than others, but they all do. I've even caught women I've shared places with in a platonic situation doing it on the couch or heard them through the wall.

pookalooka 2 years ago

Along these lines, my wife sometimes has trouble reaching orgasm, even when she is using her favorite toy, our Hitachi wand. Sometimes she just can't cum. She will work herself for 2-5 minutes (usually cums in under 60 seconds) and just get numb down there and give up. When this happens, I KNOW she is aroused and achy and needing to cum so bad but she just can't. She is visibly frustrated when she eventually gives up. It must be just like edging but of course she really wants to cum and can't. She is just left aroused and sexually frustrated, just as if a man fucked her and ejaculated prematurely and made no effort to get her off. She is left hanging. Sometimes this happens for several attempts in a row and she ends up frustrated like that for 1-2 weeks. Even so, she doesn't want sex with me, she will just wait for another chance and masturbate again and eventually she will cum.

elsid1969 2 years ago

I would love to find my wife masturbating. Not a chance like boppizza ,s wife/partner.

boppizza 3 years ago

i don't believe all women masturbate. and i know mine doesn't care if she ever sees a cock again.

ESBlofeldt 3 years ago

Too right, then again catching the act is kinda exciting too. I have a feeling she actually needs to warm up a bit with masturbation to get in the right mindset for sex. The dry spells tend to be no mast, no sex . Currently in one

wpaman 3 years ago

I have had to hide the toys when the wife gets into a pattern of taking care of herself and not us both. Doesnt usually last long, I have to balance fact that the more orgasms she has the more she wants, with making sure some or most of them are with me participating in some manner.

dkdiablo 3 years ago

to Handsinpants2 : You're lucky that you've a wife who drinks that much. Mine doesn't drink at all. But that doesn't mean I don't try and catch her out when she's naked. I fully understand the frustration of all the guys here and understand why guys stray and end up with friends with benefits.

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2weelr 3 years ago

to Handsinpants2 : I guess I'm not the only one who videos or takes pic of my wife while she is sleeping! Good to know there are other pervs like me out there!

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2weelr 3 years ago

Oh for the good old days when my wife would let me watch her masturbate. She loved to masturbate. That was the only way she could have an orgasm. Whenever we had sex it would start out that way. I would sit on the bed between her legs while she did it. Once she got comfortable with me watching, I would stand at the end of the bed and watch. Then I began hiding my phone at the end of the bed and videoing her while she masturbated. She had the same routine. Lube her finger a little, warm herself up for a few minutes, lube again, then masturbate to orgasm, usually twice, so I knew right when to pull out the phone. She always did it with her eyes closed. She would tense up, thrust and roll her eyes back in her head when she reached orgasm. Then she would let me do what I wanted.

Handsinpants2 3 years ago

no sex for months (well...she was mad at me for taking pics of her cunt while she slept. If she only knew what i've really done while she was passed out drunk), but there she was, caught on my camera in the wall, getting herself off every thursday around 1:15 while i'm at work. i love to watch, i love to say, "gotcha bitch" to myself as i watch her vibe her clit. i love to cum as she does, listening to her let loose in a way she doesnt when im around.

Handsinpants2 3 years ago

to pookalooka : feeling the same here. no sex for months, but i get to watch her get herself off (usually twice) just about every thursday at 1:15 or so, while i'm at work. i do feel like i regain some control over sexual destiny in our marriage. she decides when we have sex, but i get to decide if she gets off in private.

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rusal1 3 years ago

Obviously totally agree with you. All women masturbate and all have more or less this power to make us dependent on their good will. Their secret and unacknowledged masturbation is linked to a historical upbringing and rooted in our culture. Pity!

ejector2 4 years ago

Totally agreed.They all do it and i love to watch them

I just put on my chastity cage and hide the key. Up to me when she has cock, up to her to masturbate and I am waiting to catch it all on cam.

pookalooka 4 years ago

it relieves some of my frustration to catch my wife on camera masturbating while I am out. I know every time she does it. I agree with you that a woman's clit/cunt is just as compelling for her as a man's cock is for a man. Women, wives... masturbate. Husbands who are feeling frustrated by being denied can be assured that the wife is masturbating. I believe they all do, but they are so sneaky. Most men, even if they suspect, never can be sure. But it is a fact: wives deny their husbands sex while they masturbate to relieve their own sexual urges. If they had a "safe" boyfriend they would fuck his brains out every chance they got, just as with masturbating every chance they get. Even in her late 60s my horny wife masturbates at least weekly and I know she would do it more often if I was out more and she had the opportunity. I now find myself actually intentionally creating time for her to be home alone so she can masturbate. I like watching. It's exciting to come home and check and find my suspicions validated. Like your wife, she is perpetually horny.

Penny3thepound Publisher 4 years ago

to caughtcumming : It passes the time for me ?

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caughtcumming 4 years ago

You've said it all