Worries About Entering This Lifestyle.....

A comment made by a viewer inspired me to quickly talk about any fears that husbands might have about their wives cheating on them after letting them fuck other men. I canā€™t speak for all women, but I want viewers to know that wife sharing begins with a rock-solid relationship. If you donā€™t trust your wife to begin with, then this lifestyle is not a good fit. Trust has to be absolutely implied, with the understanding that if either person feels even a hint of discomfort and wants to stop engaging in this lifestyle, everything comes to an immediate halt - no argument or question that implies that the person doesnā€™t have the right to end the arrangement for any reason whatsoever. Both people have to feel emotionally safe as they progress in this lifestyle, so if you are feeling that your wives are behaving in ways that make you feel uncomfortable, talk to them about it. If they wonā€™t change their behaviors to make you feel more comfortable, end the wife sharing arrangement immediately.

The viewer implied that there is a chance that because my husband has me fucked by other men that Iā€™ll go out on my own in the middle of the night and do it behind his back. There is no chance of that happening. My heart disintegrates if I get any sense that my husband is not pleased with me for any reason, and I canā€™t relax until I see he is happy with me again. Iā€™d never do anything to risk his unhappiness. The other thing the viewer may not understand is that although the videos show the fun part of being a whore, it is actually very hard work. My husband expects a lot of me as it is when it comes to opening my legs for other men whenever he wishes me to do so, so my idea of fun is not to waste precious sleep hours letting even more men fuck me than Iā€™m already expected to fuck. At night, my joy comes from bathing my husband, sucking his cock until he is ready to fuck me, and feeling him in the bed beside me happy and resting. I know this is the view of only one woman, but I think my feelings on this matter are likely similar to those of any women who adore their husbands.
Published by TwoOfUsHavingFun
4 years ago
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allfun7434 3 years ago
Loved reading this.Ā  Thanks for sharing.
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classycouple
classycouple 4 years ago
I enjoy watching my wife with guys.Ā  She enjoys flirting and teasing guys and getting attention. When she's happy,, I'm happy. I am proud that other men desire her. She would never go behind my back, because she knows I would approve of anything she wants to do and would want to share it with me.Ā 
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bishavedbottom 4 years ago
Well stated! Ā The lifestyle is something that requires a level of trust most never achieve.Ā 
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yadr 4 years ago
I see it as another outlet of love, but just in this case it's also an inlet. Having a bit of a shared naughty fun together will also make the couple closer. Of course the couple must be already close to begin with.
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absanon
absanon 4 years ago
to TwoOfUsHavingFun : I must admit that I totally agree on the topic! Even more, I would ALWAYS want to be there and see it happening live in front of me :smile:
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TwoOfUsHavingFun Publisher 4 years ago
to absanon : Iā€™m sure thatā€™s arousing for some people but not us. I like to show my husband Ā that Iā€™ve been a whore for him because he sees me in a more favorable light when I do. He gets nothing out of not knowing something because heā€™s a dominant. Submissive men tend to be more comfortable with the woman doing whatever she wants, but in my experience a dominant male prefers to make decisions about what his partner does in general, but particularly with other men. Ā But you are right...I know that some men like the idea of cheating wives and it is what arouses them :smile:
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absanon
absanon 4 years ago
to TwoOfUsHavingFun : That might also be an option. But you never know how a pervy man thinks! He might just as well love the idea that you have fucked someone he does NOT know about! :smile:
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TwoOfUsHavingFun Publisher 4 years ago
to Gene04 : Exactly. I completely agree :smile:
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TwoOfUsHavingFun Publisher 4 years ago
to absanon : He gets anything he wishes, but it would be unlikely that he would want me to fuck another guy and never be told about it. If you mean if he asked me to fuck another guy as a surprise for him and tell him about it later, of course Iā€™d do it. I do whatever makes him happy :smile:
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Gene04
Gene04 4 years ago
to TwoOfUsHavingFun : Or the wife also...
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absanon
absanon 4 years ago
So imagine this scenario, your hubby suddenly has the fantasy that you actually fuck someone else without him knowing about it? Someone you find for yourself out there. Would you play along with that?
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TwoOfUsHavingFun Publisher 4 years ago
to Gene04 : Husband here. Ā Youā€™re correct. This lifestyle works great if the couple is on solid ground. Ā Not so well if there are trust issues, for example. A husband truly has to want the lifestyle and not have hang ups about watching men fuck his wife or watching her aroused and desiring another man sexually. If those things cause jealousy or upset, maybe the lifestyle is not for you.Ā 
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Gene04
Gene04 4 years ago
You are so right.Ā  Swinging, or whatever variations of swinging, are the final nail in the coffin if the marriage / relationship is not rock solid to start with.Ā  It's and emotional bond, and the fucking is just a fun activity.
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