Tipping for extras at a massage parlor.
Tipping for extras at an Asian massage parlor can be a tricky thing. I've had different experiences at different places.
First of all..... if they ask you if you have been there before, always say "Yes". They usually ask sometime during the first part of the massage when you are on your stomach. If they ask who you saw last time, just say you don't remember her name because it's been several months since you've been there. This indicates that you are cool with the whole situation. I have gone to a few places that I know recently opened up and I just answer honestly "No" because they have only been open a few weeks to a month.
The fun can start when the girl gets you to turn on your back. They can ask right away if you want anything extra and you can go from there. Sometimes they will start to massage your arms and chest and then get to your waist and then look at you and then look at your dick and back at you as if to say "You want me to jack you off?". I have a regular place I go to that the girl knows me well and she just looks at me an I nod, and then she starts to jack me off.
As far as the money goes, that can vary from place to place. Almost every place, the girl will give an indication if there is something extra she will do. At places that do full service, the girl will ask you specifically what you want and you can tell her. She will tell you that sex is a certain amount and a hand job is a certain amount. The last place I went to in Las Vegas, the girl asked me if I wanted anything extra and then she motioned with her hands for me to get my wallet for money. Almost all places, the money is exchanged up front. I have a local place where the girl knows me and when we are done, I give her an extra tip.
Whatever you do, don't try initiate anything! I think the best thing to do is let the girl ask you if you want anything. If there are extras on the menu, they will let you know. If not, they will act professional and keep going with the massage. If there is nothing extra on the menu, don't push for anything.
At my local place, they want $40 for a hand job. In the Las Vegas area, the price goes up [because it's Vegas]. I've had full service offers from $140 to $300. A few times I've paid WAY too much for a hand job [over $100]. You can negotiate, but you don't want to piss the girl off because then they will rush through it. My biggest hangup is that I want them to take their time and talk dirty to me if their English is good, so I usually pay what they want.
I hope this helped if anyone was wondering about any of this. If you have questions, feel free to ask.