The Weaker Sex
Please note before reading this post;
I am a lover of men. I love men, I think so many guys out there are just wonderful beings doing the best they can in this world. Sure, some guys are total dickheads who I'd never give the time of day to. But there's plenty of amazing, great guys out there who I'm more than happy to give my time (and more! :P) to.
Also, I love women too. The same I think of men is the same I think of women.
Most women are wonderful, and some are total cunt-faces.
This is NOT an anti-men or anti-women post.
This is simply a post to educate both men and women to better understand the true power of women. Enjoy :)
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Men are the masters of the physical.
Some of the most horrifically brutal torturous physical pain in the world has been carried out by men...
Sure, women have also been involved in acts of brutal extreme physical cruelty, but it's a much rarer occurrence...
But that said, the physical pain men can inflict pales in comparison to the psychological pain a single woman can cause o_o
Yes, it may be true that women are the weaker sex (physically speaking), but that doesn't mean a woman is powerless and non-dangerous...
Indeed, when you compare the damage caused from the physical pain a man can inflict upon someone, to the psychological pain a woman can inflict upon someone, it would be akin to comparing the damage caused from holding a hot tin cup of tea in the palm of your hand, to having a nuclear bomb explode in your face!
A man could inflict so much pain to a partner that it would make them totally give up on men altogether.
But a woman... A woman could inflict so much psychological pain onto a partner that they would totally give up on life itself!
Just look at the differences between male bullies and female bullies.
Male bullies tend to use physical strength and v
Female bullies, can slowly chip away at their victim piece by piece each and every day until they're nothing more than a broken down, bulimic, fucked up, mentally scarred and forever damaged mess.
Luckily, most women tend to only use their psychological powers when it suits them, and even then, it's usually the nerfed version of their powers. It's rare for a woman to unleash the full force of her might.
Us women, if we so ever chose to, could cause the end of the world in a matter of days using nothing but our powerful psychological warfare to tear the very infrastructure of life apart by the seams. We are by far the most powerful entities on this world. But that's only "if" we decide to use the full fo
That's why, whenever you see places in the world where women are subjugated and treated like second-class citizens, it's not because those women are powerless or weak. It's because they choose to allow themselves to be treated as such.
Now that's not a very popular opinion to have. I have gotten so much abuse from people when I've expressed this opinion of mine, but I know it to be true. Any woman who's subjugated and treated like a second-class citizen, is only being treated as such because she's allowing herself to be treated as such. If those women really wanted to, they could so very easily change the situation without barely breaking a sweat. They could so easily band together and cause social change within hours!
Hell, if you want a real life example of the power of women, just look at one of those African countries who were involved in a brutal b
One day, the women of that country had had enough of the b
And you know what happened after?
Within an hour, the 2 warring armies threw down their arms and signed a cease-fire!
That's just a small example of the power of women, right there! :P
And they didn't even use the full fo
If the women of that country unleashed their full force, they'd be running the entire continent of Africa right now! :P
I could also point to my own country's example of when women fought and died for the right to vote, but that's not a very good example. I mean, it took years of hard graft and fighting (and the outbreak/chaos of World War 1) for those brave women to finally get the right to vote, but that's only because a) they didn't use the full force of their power (if they had done, the right to vote would have been secured within a day) and b) some women actually didn't want the vote, they wanted to keep the status quo, some women were more than happy to be subjugated and treated like second-class citizens. If every single woman in the world were to unite together under one goal, we could either destroy the world or shape it to whatever design we wanted!
But we don't do that. Mainly because most women are happy with the status quo of the world. We're happy as things are. And, quite frankly, most of us just can't be bothered with the hassle of uniting together to run the world lol
Besides, it's way more fun for us women to use our powers for the good of mankind :P
Oh sure, we may have the power in us to destroy lives.
We have the power in us to tear buildings down without lifting a finger.
We have the power in us to shatter the most strongest of minds effortlessly like as if their mind is made of thin brittle glass.
But most of us aren't evil.
We live for using our powers for good. It gives us far greater joy and fulfilment to use our power for good.
We have the power in us to make any man or any woman feel like the greatest human being alive.
We have the power in us to inspire men/women of the world to do impossible things.
We have the power in us to create real life gods and goddesses out of ordinary folks.
We have the power in us to let people experience the most wonderful of pleasures.
We have the power in us to take heaven down from the clouds for ordinary mortals to enjoy.
So, for any of you women reading this, understand the power you have inside of you. Know that you never have to take being subjugated and tread on for one moment. You can change your situation anytime you want to, all you have to do is want to change it. If you're a woman feeling like you're stepped on, you're only being stepped on because you're allowing it to happen. If you don't want to be stepped on, use your power to stop it! Use you're natural powerful strength found inside your mind to say "No more!" and stop yourself from ever being stepped on again!
And as for any of you lovely guys reading this, just take this simple message to heart; treat your women well!
Show the women of your life the best possible you that you can be, make them feel special, loved and cared for!
And in return, I promise you, your women will use their special powers on you to make you feel like a god!
But also know this, if you ever find yourself with a woman who's using her powers for evil. If she's making your life a misery, if she is psychologically torturing you day in/day out, then run! Run as far away from her as your legs will carry you, for she is danger itself. She is a nuclear bomb just waiting to explode on you. Run, and never look back!
Thanks for reading!
Let me know your thoughts/opinions on this post, in the comments below :)
6 лет назад
I first started learning about it in my own time after watching Disney's Hercules (one of the very best Disney films ever made
And then, later on when I was around 13, I would sneak off to a local library while bunking off from school, and just sat in there all day reading various books on the myths and legends of ancient Greece... I know, I know, total nerd
Although I was somewhat aware of that play the last time I had an insatiable Ancient Greece fixation a number of years ago, although I was more interested in learning about the Gods and their petty high-school like dramas lol
But I did a bit of research and digging around online (thank you, Google lol), and from what I gathered it seems mostly true. In Togo, to protest the Togolese president holding on to too much power for too long, a bunch of female activists organised a week-long sex-strike to try and frustrate their men into action (I couldn't find what the result of it was).
And in Liberia, to end a civil war, the women of the country were encouraged (amongst other forms of protest) to go on a sex strike, which apparently lasted on and off for a few months. Admittedly, the woman who was the main organiser of the protest movement (Leymah Gbowee) said of the sex strike that it itself wasn't all that directly effective, but it did bring them the media attention they needed to spread their message of peace and it helped to rally the people around to the cause of peace.
So yeah, despite the sex strike not being a direct cause of peace-talks breaking out, it did still play a role in bringing peace to their warring nation.
Yeah, "weaker sex" is a very out-dated term, and always has been a complete fallacy at that! I could argue that it's women who have always been the stronger of the sexes, but it would be easy to call me bias on that assumption
But yeah I totally get what you mean.
I personally I just want and champion equality for both genders. It would be a much lovelier world if everybody could just recognise the struggles of their fellow human beings, as both genders have their struggles in life to contend with and both genders have unreasonable expectations and pressures demanded of them from society, and so we should all recognise this and help each other out. To support each other in our battles.
Men should be allowed to show their vulnerabilities and emotions without being made to feel like less of a man for it, and women should be allowed to show their strength and power without having their femininity questioned and judged. The times they are a-changing though and I feel positive that we've entered into a golden age of such equality (at least in the Western world we have), and slowly but surely this vision of equality is coming true
As for all the screeching idiots out there who are so quick to snarl and gnash their teeth at any guy for daring to feel attracted towards an attractive female and call him a misogynist for it, well they should try going to places like Saudi Arabia and see what true misogyny actually looks like. If those twats really want to change the world, they should try changing it in those places where women really are treated like second-class citizens who have far less rights and protections than the men of those horrific societies.
OK, OK, I'm going to stop here before I rant your eyeballs out of your skull haha
What a thought!
It's a terrible example of BDSM written from the view of someone who doesn't know nor understand what actual BDSM is all about. Real BDSM is just the most fantastic way to explore trust and pleasure amongst loving, kind, considerate and thoughtful partners. Real BDSM is performed by people who love and care and treat their lovers with the utmost of respect, dignity, admiration and kindness. Believe it or not, but it's actually the dominants in a BDSM relationship who cherish and worship their partner(s) the most, it's the dominants who are the happily willing slaves to their submissives pleasures/desires!
Fifty Shades, on the other hand, is as abusive as you can possibly get. It's mental torture, emotional abuse, I dare say even physical abuse too, because Grey brainwashes her so much with his emotional abuse that she can't possibly be of stable-mind enough to actually wilfully agree to the things he subjects her to.
That's why, whenever a guy or a woman says to me, "I really enjoy the whole Fifty Shades lifestyle." I just look at them like they're dangerously ignorant and completely warped! I always try to educate them on what real BDSM is, but some simply just don't get it. They think BDSM is only about torture and abuse, and there's no helping people who believe that, unless they're actually interested and want to know what real BDSM is about... Otherwise they're a danger to themselves and to others, and should never be allowed to practise any form of BDSM, because those sickos actually want emotional and physical abuse from/to their partner(s), because they have no interest in real BDSM!
Anyway, rant aside lol
Yes, financial fears can also be a very valid reason for why someone might stick with an abusive relationship. But there'll come a point eventually when they'll realise (with help and support from those around them) that walking the streets homeless would be a better option for them than sticking with the abuse (although obviously, they and anyone who's actually penniless should be given whatever financial support they need to get themselves back up on their feet).
And as for those who fear they won't find a better partner- well, they just need someone to remind them that their abusive partner is the one who will never be able to find a better partner than them. That's why I'll always give my time to anyone in an abusive relationship who wants out of it, by empowering them, making them realise the strength they've always had inside of them to be able to stand up and say, "No more!".
But again, that's only for those who *WANT* to stop the abuse they get. As much as I and any decent person wants to, sometimes sadly there's just no helping those who don't want help. It's the same with drug-addicts, unless a drug-addict actually wants the help, no one can help them. No one can ever help anyone who doesn't want help...
Maybe I WILL take you out for dinner - got a passport?
I agree with the fact that, when a guy is abusing (mentally and/or physically) someone in an intimate relationship, it can indeed be devastating. And I'm speaking from personal experience here (I'd never let a guy get away for one moment trying to do that to me, but I have had to deal with a mostly emotionally abusive male relative in my life and also I've had a very close family member who was in such an abusive intimate relationship with an ex-partner). But I do believe a guy only gets away with that kind of horrific devastating behaviour towards his partner because he's allowed to get away with it by the very partner he's abusing. There's only so much other people can do for a woman in such a situation, you can give her all the support she needs and show her much better alternatives/choices than to stay with such an asshole, but at the end of the day it's up to that woman to say to herself, "I don't want to take anymore from him. I want it all to stop." and only then will she realise she has had the power inside of her the whole time to put a stop to it all in an instant, and then get the hell out of that relationship!
Now I know men can (and a very large amount of guys do) find themselves on the receiving end of an abusive relationship. And in many respects, they have it far worse, because society has a way of being a total dick to guys and saying, "Why don't you just man up and stop your wife/girlfriend from hitting you?". Obviously it doesn't work that way, I mean, he may be physically strong enough to hold her arms down when she starts attacking him but then she can just cry and say to the police or whoever, "Oh he's a big strong guy and I'm just a weak girl, I couldn't possibly have attacked him, just look at the bruises on my arms he gave me!" and then the guy gets in big trouble while she's free to continue her reign of mental/emotional terror over him. And that just shows the power us women (especially the evil ones) have to manipulate the minds of others into thinking whatever we want them to think for our own benefit and ends
That's not to discredit men though. I mean, much like a woman in an abusive relationship, men do have the power in them to stop it all whenever they want to simply be finding the power in them to say, "I don't want to take it anymore, I want it to stop." and then getting the hell out of that relationship!
But I still personally believe, when you compare the 2 genders in those examples, that it's the evil woman who can cause the much larger amounts of damage/devastation to her victim, rather than the evil guy to his victim, mostly because she has the backing of society and gender stereotypes in her corner to manipulate the situation to her benefit. I mean the evil guy could damage the girl to the point she gives up on love while he comes out of it stinking like shit. The evil woman however could damage her victim to the point that he gives up on living while she comes out of it smelling like roses...
As for my belief that some women choose to allow themselves to be treated like garbage, well I still stick by that belief. Now don't get me wrong, if a woman is not actually made aware of any other choices/alternatives/options open to her besides being treated like garbage, then she'll never really have a "choice" in that situation because she hasn't been given one. But there are plenty of women being treated like garbage who are fully aware of the alternatives open to her besides being treated like garbage, and yet they don't take those choices.
Now they probably don't take those different choices for a number of reasons; maybe they don't feel strong enough to be anything more than "garbage", maybe they don't want to rock the boat, maybe they just want to keep the status quo, maybe they don't want to have people they know think differently of them. Whatever, there's a lot of reasons.
But my point is, by not choosing a different choice besides "Option A) be treated like garbage", then they're automatically choosing by default to allow themselves to be treated like garbage. You can give them all the different options besides "Option A", but unless they actually choose a different option, you can't really do anything else for them, they've made their choice to allow themselves to be treated like garbage and until they actually want to pick a different option, they'll always be allowing themselves to be treated like garbage.
Obviously, no woman should ever be treated like garbage and any person who thinks it's perfectly fine to treat a woman (or anyone, for that matter) like garbage, is a total loser dickhead who doesn't deserve to be called a human. And I'll always have all the time in the world to help and show other women who are being treated like garbage the different choices/alternatives/options open to them, but if a woman doesn't actually want to pick another option and wants to continue allowing herself to be treated like garbage, well there's nothing else anybody can do for her, she's got to lie in the bed she makes for herself.
Sounds a bit harsh that, I know, but everyone (men and women) have to live with the choices they make in life and accept personal responsibility for whatever outcome occurs from the choices they make...
On a much lighter note, because god knows these comments needs lightening up now haha
I completely agree with you - the most nuttiest cuckoos in the world are women! lol
I mean, not that men can't go crazy or act all erratic, but for the most part (aside from the few extreme examples) a man going crazy in public is pretty harmless and often just requires a social helper patting him on the shoulder and saying, "Shh come now, let's take you home and run you a nice warm bath..." to soothe and settle him down.
A woman going crazy in public though? Oh sweet zombie Jesus! Stay as far away from that nutty female fruitcake as you possibly can! haha
Nothing but the most powerful of elephant tranquilliser can calm a woman going batshit crazy! lol
The post is absolutely littered with double standards which you correctly recognise.
It’s not the first time and somehow failing to notice.
However it’s still not that wide of the mark in that the majority of women (only speaking from my experience and not tarnishing all women, least of all you), live by double standards. She is a reflection of the norm despite protestations to the contrary.
It wouldn’t be absurd for instance to suggest that Angie may secretly believe that she could win a miss universe contest. I could however be wrong, just saying it wouldn’t be a major surprise.
No offence is intended by this comment, simply adding a contribution to the discussion.
But if you're talking about intimate relationships with your family or lover, I've found that at least from my very limited personal experience, men can cause just as much emotional stress.
I think men are far more likely to develop a narcissistic personality than women, which doesn't necessarily influence that playground bullying or feud-at-work kinda stuff, but often does lead to some kind of emotional abuse in an intimate relationship. Placing his needs and wishes above hers, disregarding her opinion or well being altogether, lack of empathy, always trying to take advantage of her to achieve his own goal... These are all types of emotional 'abuse' I think you'll find are all far more common coming from men than they are from women.
And just like you said about female bullies - this type of bullying too will just slowly chip away at the woman piece by piece every day until they break down o_o
Which leads me into the next thing you said that I disagree with - It's because they *choose* to allow themselves to be treated as such!
It might just be a poor choice of words, but that would imply that the woman is aware of all the possible choices that are laid out for her... And more often than not, the reason they're in that mess in the first place.. it's because they don't know there are better possibilities for them.
But again, we might just be talking about completely different situations here, because yeah, sometimes it *is* easier to just take some shit and wave it away rather than going to war with every single person...
Also, Christ Annie, are you running for Miss Universe??
"If every single woman in the world were to unite together under one goal, we could either destroy the world or shape it to whatever design we wanted!"
Honestly that would be no different if every man, child or person that identifies as a chopper or doorknob united, come on now..
Besides, have you seen those posts on the internet about crazy people flipping their shit about a scratch on the car.. people bbq'ing in a public place... random racists fighting in a hotel lobby...
....All those cuckoos, they're always women :C
Take you for dinner at my favourite Italian restaurant (yes - it's in Italy), or,
Both
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Decisions, decisions
That said, any guy (either submissives or dominants) who appreciate women for what we are and treat us how we want to be treated, are pretty wonderful amazing guys who deserve whatever pleasure we give them
And don't worry, I'm sure if women ever were to unite together and take over the world, I'm sure for such nice guys like you who happily surrender to us will be given a life of joy and pleasure beyond anything you could ever imagine lol
Thank you for the lovely thoughtful comment
Although I will never be able to completely understand what a woman’s life is like, I always appreciate being able to hear or read things from a female POV. And I certainly try to express my gratitude, love and admiration to these amazing women.
And on that note, thank you very much, Ms_Cream_Puff, for writing such a thought-provoking post
I would be surprised if anyone over the age of 18 doesn’t already know this. That’s not to criticise the post but it does rather state the obvious.
Certainly women have caused me significant psychological and emotional trauma which is likely to haunt me for the rest of my days.