Feb 6, 2019
Below is a letter I wrote to my wife after she came home from work the other night and told me about something that happened with this black guy George she has been flirting with for several months. Yes, he knows she is married and has even talked about me to him, but only the fact of me being retired military and whatnot. She works at a casino as a slot attendant and has George as a regular customer who is a quasi high roller/frequent guest. My wife noticed him awhile back and said he was a big man and really sweet so she started giving him extra attention by showing up with his coffee and complimentary cigarettes before the cocktail waitresses could and then started greeting him with a hug. Those hugs she said are now ones where she pushes her breasts into him to give him a good feel and she says he knows what she is doing.
Anyway she got home and said I need to tell you what happened today at work with George. She got into a nightgown and we sat of the bed and she said she was working and came around the corner and saw George standing by a slot machine and she walked up and hugged him and let out this long mmmmmmm sound and asked if he wanted his usual.
She said he said yes and said she hurried along and got his stuff and got right back to him and set his stuff down and said here you go and added this service comes with a hug and grabbed him around his waist and pressed her body into his. She said when she got done George jokingly said "makes me want to put a ring on it" and my wife said she held out her hand and showed him her wedding bands and said "there is already a ring on it but that does not mean I am not available." After that she said he laughed but she knew she changed things between them.
I asked her you really did that and she said yes and I asked what happens next because you basically told him you want to sleep with him and he is taking that seriously. She said "I do not know" and I told her well you better be ready to at least engage is some banter with him to let him know it is a serious offer because at some point he going to proposition you but that you still want time to think about it at least.
The letter contains other things about the discussion we had and things she said to me.
Hi there, Sending this hoping it is okay.
I guess it is "official" about us. If you can boldly tell a black man that you are married but that does not mean you are not available then there is no doubt where this is all going with you.
I must have struck a chord in you when I brought up the subject of you sleeping with a black man but never in my wildest dreams did I foresee you acting on this so intensely. It is obvious you find sleeping with a black man every bit as thrilling as I do, maybe more so now.
And what stuns me is that you were the one who actually initiated everything once I asked.. No discussion was had on how this happens, you just did it!! That must mean you have a very real attraction for black men and a desire to be taken by a black man I never anticipated. It tells me you you would not be doing any of this unless you felt you want this to go further.
George is an interesting situation and things could happen fast but I know "we" need time to figure out our next move now that you have said you are available. I can tell you are into him as a man by the way describe him as sweet so the chemistry is there. If you are indeed interested in having sex with him then let's talk some more.
If he starts propositioning you I suggest exchanging numbers and text with him to get more of a feel for him as a person but you need to stress that he must be discreet. By texting I believe you can find out over time if he is the man you want to sleep with. I think what is important here is taking your time and not feeling pressured, you can be up front with and tell him you want to take it slow so he understands that this is not happening quick if that is what you want.
Okay the following is me thinking out loud so bear with me. Of course tell me if I am incorrect or you disagree with anything I might say and tell me what you think.
Things that are going to come up in texts would be easy for you if you were single lol, but that is not the case and if you were single you would have already slept with him and the need for texts would not exist. I have no idea at what point or how the topic of you and him having sex will come up if you start texting with him but since you are married he might ask about me or either you are going to have to bring me up.
I am sure you have thoughts on what you might say to him, but like I said, you can tell him that I am not oblivious to what you are doing. Somehow you are going to have to ease in the fact we have discussed this and ask if he would be comfortable with me watching. (Suggestion Only) To that end, if he should ask who initiated this I believe it might be better if you said it was you. We both know I initiated it but since then it has been your desires that got us to here so I believe it is probably just as accurate, or more so, to tell him it was you looking to do this and that is how you spotted him.
You could say we watched an interracial movie together and that you found it erotic and told me so and things just snowballed after you said you had never slept with a black man (wording could be adjusted if need be if you do not want mention race) and hinted about doing it and that after awhile I gave in. Let's discuss this and find a way to keep it simple which I know you are good at.
If after all this he says he is uncomfortable with me being there then this all may be a moot, unless we can find some setting where he is comfortable. I do not know if suggesting if I watched from another room might work, but there might be options. If he says yes then the rest is up to you and him. Cannot believe I just typed that last sentence.
NOTE: You telling me you were "in your head" after you told him you were available and that you imagined getting off work and seeing him and you blew him a kiss........then you imagined him coming over to you and grabbing the back of your head and pulling you in and kissing you is some very strong imagery and I swear is as if you were telling me you want something like this to happen with him; like you want him to kiss you in way where it is unexpected and you never planned on it, it just happened. I could be wrong, but I think you want him to kiss you.
Not coaching you in this but you heard me say in bed if you and him talked outside after work in a "private" area you just might find yourself in this moment. And if I recall correctly, and I am paraphrasing here, you even alluded to the fact you do not think you could do it at "work" because it wasn't private; so if it was someplace else you would be comfortable with him kissing you?
And to be honest, and I hope I am not out of line here, and since you brought it up, if you had this in your head I could actually see you initiating a kiss with him. If you were next to him talking in a "private" area and found yourself in this situation where you both knew what you were thinking but you knew he was waiting for you tell him it was okay, that would be the moment I see you giving in to those emotions in your head and it just feels like you would go with it. I see it in my head and it is erotic as fuck.
Trust me though, if you should "see" George after work, like walking in the parking lot and stop to talk I am not going to object because I think it would interesting to hear what you talked about. Aaand, a tiny part of me is hoping that in that moment he makes that move you mentioned and starts to kiss you and you give in and let him. Is that too far or is that sexy?
Love Keith
Anyway she got home and said I need to tell you what happened today at work with George. She got into a nightgown and we sat of the bed and she said she was working and came around the corner and saw George standing by a slot machine and she walked up and hugged him and let out this long mmmmmmm sound and asked if he wanted his usual.
She said he said yes and said she hurried along and got his stuff and got right back to him and set his stuff down and said here you go and added this service comes with a hug and grabbed him around his waist and pressed her body into his. She said when she got done George jokingly said "makes me want to put a ring on it" and my wife said she held out her hand and showed him her wedding bands and said "there is already a ring on it but that does not mean I am not available." After that she said he laughed but she knew she changed things between them.
I asked her you really did that and she said yes and I asked what happens next because you basically told him you want to sleep with him and he is taking that seriously. She said "I do not know" and I told her well you better be ready to at least engage is some banter with him to let him know it is a serious offer because at some point he going to proposition you but that you still want time to think about it at least.
The letter contains other things about the discussion we had and things she said to me.
Hi there, Sending this hoping it is okay.
I guess it is "official" about us. If you can boldly tell a black man that you are married but that does not mean you are not available then there is no doubt where this is all going with you.
I must have struck a chord in you when I brought up the subject of you sleeping with a black man but never in my wildest dreams did I foresee you acting on this so intensely. It is obvious you find sleeping with a black man every bit as thrilling as I do, maybe more so now.
And what stuns me is that you were the one who actually initiated everything once I asked.. No discussion was had on how this happens, you just did it!! That must mean you have a very real attraction for black men and a desire to be taken by a black man I never anticipated. It tells me you you would not be doing any of this unless you felt you want this to go further.
George is an interesting situation and things could happen fast but I know "we" need time to figure out our next move now that you have said you are available. I can tell you are into him as a man by the way describe him as sweet so the chemistry is there. If you are indeed interested in having sex with him then let's talk some more.
If he starts propositioning you I suggest exchanging numbers and text with him to get more of a feel for him as a person but you need to stress that he must be discreet. By texting I believe you can find out over time if he is the man you want to sleep with. I think what is important here is taking your time and not feeling pressured, you can be up front with and tell him you want to take it slow so he understands that this is not happening quick if that is what you want.
Okay the following is me thinking out loud so bear with me. Of course tell me if I am incorrect or you disagree with anything I might say and tell me what you think.
Things that are going to come up in texts would be easy for you if you were single lol, but that is not the case and if you were single you would have already slept with him and the need for texts would not exist. I have no idea at what point or how the topic of you and him having sex will come up if you start texting with him but since you are married he might ask about me or either you are going to have to bring me up.
I am sure you have thoughts on what you might say to him, but like I said, you can tell him that I am not oblivious to what you are doing. Somehow you are going to have to ease in the fact we have discussed this and ask if he would be comfortable with me watching. (Suggestion Only) To that end, if he should ask who initiated this I believe it might be better if you said it was you. We both know I initiated it but since then it has been your desires that got us to here so I believe it is probably just as accurate, or more so, to tell him it was you looking to do this and that is how you spotted him.
You could say we watched an interracial movie together and that you found it erotic and told me so and things just snowballed after you said you had never slept with a black man (wording could be adjusted if need be if you do not want mention race) and hinted about doing it and that after awhile I gave in. Let's discuss this and find a way to keep it simple which I know you are good at.
If after all this he says he is uncomfortable with me being there then this all may be a moot, unless we can find some setting where he is comfortable. I do not know if suggesting if I watched from another room might work, but there might be options. If he says yes then the rest is up to you and him. Cannot believe I just typed that last sentence.
NOTE: You telling me you were "in your head" after you told him you were available and that you imagined getting off work and seeing him and you blew him a kiss........then you imagined him coming over to you and grabbing the back of your head and pulling you in and kissing you is some very strong imagery and I swear is as if you were telling me you want something like this to happen with him; like you want him to kiss you in way where it is unexpected and you never planned on it, it just happened. I could be wrong, but I think you want him to kiss you.
Not coaching you in this but you heard me say in bed if you and him talked outside after work in a "private" area you just might find yourself in this moment. And if I recall correctly, and I am paraphrasing here, you even alluded to the fact you do not think you could do it at "work" because it wasn't private; so if it was someplace else you would be comfortable with him kissing you?
And to be honest, and I hope I am not out of line here, and since you brought it up, if you had this in your head I could actually see you initiating a kiss with him. If you were next to him talking in a "private" area and found yourself in this situation where you both knew what you were thinking but you knew he was waiting for you tell him it was okay, that would be the moment I see you giving in to those emotions in your head and it just feels like you would go with it. I see it in my head and it is erotic as fuck.
Trust me though, if you should "see" George after work, like walking in the parking lot and stop to talk I am not going to object because I think it would interesting to hear what you talked about. Aaand, a tiny part of me is hoping that in that moment he makes that move you mentioned and starts to kiss you and you give in and let him. Is that too far or is that sexy?
Love Keith
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