My erotic writings
|Have you ever felt so deeply... and connected to someone that it stretched open even your boundaries
of what you would do with them or allow?And now as you remember a time when you felt so high on life ,so turned on by someone ,and so happy in love...can you picture that moment or moments? If you can imagine that clearly enough then i guarantee you will immediately feel good like becoming enchanted.
I ask you ...is it t possible to feel that way all the time? Some of the time? You can...immediately ...when your suddenly ....at the right place in your heart and mind. And you choice to do that whenever you direct your own mind in powerful ways. You may see it hard to do ...it might sound to large for you to handle. Or you might feel it entering you only to wonder if you can keep it...That is until my words penetrate your depths and come inside of you to make a explosive impact in you.
To have this happen you just get into sate which is what the Neuro -Linguistic -Programmers do. And no ,i am not hyping up some new pop psychology . This stuff isn't new. So i cannot promise you a bed of roses. Though maybe i will be able to make you feel better right now and happy simply by directing the focus of our thought.
“State” is the total impact of your mind,body,feelings,physiology at any given moment. For example you can remember a time of the time you felt deeply attracted to someone and the energy built and built and built until you couldn’t take it anymore your state was that of being turned on or horny or feeling intensely erotic. You could also remember a time of feeling miserable , nothing was going right for you. All the outcomes of our lives have to do with this one BIG thing how we are feeling at any moment.
The easiest way is simply to turn off your mind altogether and deeply engage something you truly truly love and you love it every time. I’m going with sex on this one just because the energy is so powerful, innocent, and yes its loving. You may try to turn off your feelings during sex to make it only about that but isn’t wanting to feel good during sex still an emotion? What you really want is to not get your feelings hurt during any off that. You may turn off your feelings for awhile but if you keep going back to him or her again and again guess what ? Your going to fall for him,me i believe you will.
Do you know why your going to fall fer em? Me,i can tell you that it happens instantly when the threshold is reached to welcome his all and her all. The you will fall in love. And you do it by eye contact primary at least . If you were to gaze into my eyes and had the littlest hint of attraction
towards me that attraction energy or some call it “rapport”, my pupils will dilate and when they dilate i will look more attractive to you...then your pupils will dilate and when they dilate from
this energy... brain chemicals flood your brain and powerful happy hormones of oxytocin and phenypropanolamine and endogenous morphine or endorphins are in high quantity
. Keep gazing into my eyes your face will relax, your jaw will relax ,your mouth will part and you’ll lick your lips. Keep gazing into my eyes and you’ll smile, your face will flush and a connection will build and build and build.. all for what? Your aura or energy body is overlapping my aura we are becoming one being. Sex is about oneness, absolutely when you orgasm your boundaries collapse you become one and that oneness as orgasm feels good yes!!!! um yes! Woohooo!
Some can get very turned on just by reading about this even speaking about oneness connection . When you write about it you cannot fail with detail . See that’s where a guy needs a little help. He says general statement like ' i want to fuck her” ad that doesn't mean that much. Its too harsh for women to handle. But you will handle it when you feel it as detail For example i could say to my lover: “ Sweetheart i want to give you something nice i want to make you time Delicious food and eat it under the candlelight and have nice background music. ...you buy them nice fresh roses and place them on the table for a sweet delicious fragrance that sets the mood and atmosphere ( see the detail)? Then later on well take lots of time to have wonderful foreplay and massage one another and just caress your breast once in while with the backward stroke of my hand that registers through your whole body. By the time i finally penetrate you with my ever hardening manhood you’ll be so head over hells in profound enjoyment and excitement that you’ll ache for me to fill you and cume deeply inside of you' ...see that is detailed and says much more than “ i want to fuck her” or something.
I hate to say this but men can learn for women how to seduce better than their male friends...Mostly because woen ise much more of their brain for deciphering non verbal signals than men do... except that women are not letting you in on their secrets. Ha hah .
Why do women go to the bathroom together.. that is truly an enigma ..hehehe often they go to talk about that guy they were gazing g at. How he looks so amazing what he was wearing and how perfect his shoes were and then they talk me to another about how they want to with him. But they will keep that info silent from men . Why..Because they want to have fun AND great sex and let loose but it means even more to them that they are not used as sex objects and that they are respected. THEY JUST DONT WANT TO BE USED. Nobody does ...
Some women don't care about any of that ....and to each their own... because some women just do want to fuck ! Ha hah and that is okay too .We’ve had a double standard in this society anyways i don't know about the rest of the world ,possibly its still like that in many places. The double standard is that men can fuck, brag and “do” women and their male friends will of course congratulate them . Though a women will keep it silent of how any shes been with except perhaps her best friend.
Men tend to lie about how many they’ve been with while women lie in the opposite direction. Its the 25% rule that men exaggerate at least 25% more of who they with while women exaggerate in the other direction leaving 25% out of the equation . So a man with 25 women he adds say 6 or 7 more. If a women with 25 men she says it is like 16 or 17.
This is all just a program and it means nothing. Men also tend to sexuality their emotional or affectional needs while women tend to emotionalize their sexual needs .Therefore we can all learn each form the other sex. Then well have a happy medium. I bet for the guys who get into the sensuality are older. Why then? Because they are wiser and have finally found using women or just fucking them is cheap because the only one that is cheap in this is the men who rip themselves off of the full experience. That full experience cums for when they energy is raised up through the charka system into he heart region where fucking of the lower chakras becomes “love making : of the heart
Can we have our cake and eat it too? Absolutely because when were really really really turned on its explosive and powerful orgasmic energy that makes us want to rip off buttons zippers torn out and we fuck on the hall instead of having even made it to the bedroom This is the ' I WANT YOU NOW!!!!!” FEELGIN. NOW later on you can make love, touch ,fondle, caress you can have your cake and it it too.
...some couples after years of marriage want to spice things up.. they try new things they are sexually mature and if they are stable enough and not jealous they may want to brig a third party in. This threesome works for some even swapping and orgies work for some... i judge none of it because i am not them and cannot choose for them Many interested in such fantasies that may not ever give into them still watch pornography involving their fantasy scenes in their mind .THE CAVEST IS: TO EACH THEIR OWN UNLESS IT HURTS ANOTHER. And to the revisionists who are against homosexuality . “IF you don’t like it isn’t it better to not think about it and leave them be”? A great being that lives in my heart not in the church once said “JUDGE NOT THAT YE NOT BE JUDGED”. . Or TO Jimmy Swaggart in the old days if you didn’t like homosexuals then stop imaging them butt fucking in your ind. CASE CLOSED! Those that are very against something anything are usually th ones that are doing it and feel guilt then project it onto others. I didn't need a psychology degree to figure that out.