Clearing the Air Part III
I love women. I really love women.
In my lifetime the roles for women in relationships and sex have constantly evolved.
The worldwide modern woman is much more aware of her sexuality and this has allowed any woman to have the choice to decide if she willingly wants to give herself and her sexual "power" to someone she can trust.
In return, she expects her partner to accept that act of submission as a gift of trust that cannot be .
It is not all about BDSM, D/s, fetishes, or any of the many sexual descriptions because some women are into plain vanilla sex. Don't get me wrong, plain vanilla sex is good too and is still covered by the same rules.
Every woman that has been in any kind of relationship with me has been a great friend before, during, and after the sexual part of our relationship. Women do not need to feel shame or guilt for expressing and experiencing their sexuality. As men we need to be aware of the depth of pleasure that is available to us when we stop thinking in negative terms of "whore" or "slut" and accept that women are as sexual, and more sensual, than we ever really give them credit for. If you are going to call your women slut or whore it is because she needs you to and you both agree to use the term as a healthy part of your relationship. It is not healthy to use any of these words in any aother way.
When I tell my partner she exists to serve me and my sexual needs as I see fit, it is because whe has asked me to let her know that. Notice the power dynamic here. She has given me consent to speak to her in this way. Her consent comes from how she recognizes she is free to be that woman or not. She can accept that to serve me is to have a need in herself be satisfied. No force or is acceptable. I am hers. For example, I can provide a spanking as a or reward. It is all about mutual consent on how it is done.
Together we explore the full range of our ability to serve and be free to experience, experiment, and be the sexual people we want or need to be.
Please give me some feedback so I can decide which direction to take for my next journal update.
Be Good!
Ciao.