Thoughts on spending the whole night together

Why is it that you've never spent the whole night with your lovers unless they are married like me and time is limited. I've only had the opportunity a few times and it's nice to have some great sex, sleep and then have him wake me gently slipping his hand into my pantie to arouse me go another round. I so vividly remember my first over nighter as it was well planned a few weeks before my wife was going out of town. I was so excited, much like a woman on a first date as to what to wear and would he really like me. I wore all white lingerie, lacy of course, panties, garter with lace top hose and front clip bra with some lace with silver 4" high heels, I choose a brunette wig after I put my makeup on which is not easy so I'd had started this whole process a good 2 hours before he was to arrive. If he arrived as I've had a few no shows. When done I splashed on some lovely perfume and oh yes put on a pair of my wife's lovely clip on earrings. All the while I was sipping some Jack Daniels so bi the end I was a bit high but just enough as I slipped into a very tight white dress which I struggled to get the zipper up on the back. I fought the whole time getting hard and not wanting to touch myself as didn't want to cum early or too fast but to see myself in the full length mirror all made up and the outline of my 8" cock in that dress I was surprised I didn't cum but managed to control myself still sipping my JD until he showed up to the door. The looking on his face was priceless as he said I was totally gorgeous and was more than he was expecting so in he came and our evening progressed with a lot of chat as I love most of the time liking to get to know whose is going to sleep with me. This went on for over an hour and I could see his pants had quite a bulge in it and there was no way I was going to hide my excitement which he had rubbed is hand over more that once. We agreed to go into the bedroom where I stripped him down and kissed his lips with my bright red lips and kneels and sucked his cock which was a lovely thick 6". Then to stripping me down as the dress zipper down first as he kissed my shoulders and back as he did it but he wanted to admire what I was in and my 8" cock was not even close to staying in the pantie.... he kissed it and I'd said lets take it slow and not cum to quickly.... He progresses to stripping me down to bra and pantie and into bed we went pleasuring one another.....He was to fuck me so bad and said he brought condom but I said if it's OK I love bareback which excited him more so he entered me doggie style for a bit and then I rolled over and he enter me missionary... Low and behold as he was fucking then and we were both ready to cum the phone rang and it was the wife so told him I had to pick up or she'd be suspicious, so I did but told him to stay in me which he did and just pumped me slowly while I made the necessary chat with the wife. She said I sound like I was out of breath and fortunately we have treadmill at home and told her I had been on it when she called. We talked for a good 10 minutes as didn't want to be so quite as to make her suspicious. My date was enjoying this as he was pumped me and smile thinking how funny it was for me to be getting fuck in the bed where I would fuck her. He fucked me good once I hung up and the I sucked his cock and ate all his cum. We both been drinking so held each other and went to sleep which was wonderful as I felt so fem and not having a time constrain on us was so nice as once we'd slept for awhile we were back up and fucking again. The benefits of being to stay all night