By Kelly Goonan (MPH Candidate) and Jessie Ford (PhD), Socialmedical Sciences, Columbia University The first thing I notice when the nurse comes into the room is her pin: a small pink circle with “she/her” written in bold … [Read more...] about Beyond Pronouns: Including Gender-Affirming Practices in Medical School Curriculum
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Good Sex Goes Beyond Penetration
Sex is so much more than just a penis in a vagina! What happens if your penis isn't strong enough to penetrate? What if your dry vagina is causing tiny tears that hurt during sexual activity? What if you are suffering with a … [Read more...] about Good Sex Goes Beyond Penetration
Keys To Giving Terrific Cunnilingus
The myth is that men don’t enjoy giving women oral sex. Actually, many love it. Providing this gift feels deeply intimate and very satisfying. In addition, women are much more likely to have orgasms from oral than intercourse. … [Read more...] about Keys To Giving Terrific Cunnilingus
5 Thrusting Techniques To Elevate Your Bedroom Game
When it comes to being an incredible lover, it’s not just about physical stamina or flashy moves. True connection, intentionality, and understanding your partner’s desires can set you apart in the bedroom. If you’re aiming to be … [Read more...] about 5 Thrusting Techniques To Elevate Your Bedroom Game
Podcast: Dating Someone Behind Bars
In this episode of the podcast, Dr. Laurie talks about dating and relationships when one partner is incarcerated. You'll also hear answers to listener-submitted questions, and get Dr. Laurie's take on "Sex in the News." … [Read more...] about Podcast: Dating Someone Behind Bars
Anxiety And Its Impact On Relationships
In today’s world, most people feel worried at times. You may worry about your family, your job, your health and other personal issues; you may worry about friends and your community; and you may worry about issues facing the … [Read more...] about Anxiety And Its Impact On Relationships
Men & Breasts: A Surprisingly Complex History
An old joke tells of a male boss who interviews four women for a job. All four are qualified. Who gets the job? The one with the largest breasts. Men smile at the punch line, but women often cringe, feeling tyrannized by breast … [Read more...] about Men & Breasts: A Surprisingly Complex History
Get Out Of Your Head & Enjoy The Moment
Do you find yourself in your head during times of intimacy? When you are in your head, can you thoroughly enjoy the experience? If you answered yes to either question, you are not alone! Many allow their insecurities to ruin their … [Read more...] about Get Out Of Your Head & Enjoy The Moment
You’re Entitled To Be Spoken To Respectfully
Jim and Sharon were driving on a country road on their way to visit friends at a cottage. Jim had trouble with the directions he was given and got lost. He stopped at another cottage to ask for help. Sharon criticized him … [Read more...] about You’re Entitled To Be Spoken To Respectfully
The Situationship Trap: What To Do When You Want More
If you're in a situationship and secretly hoping it turns into a real relationship, you're playing a dangerous game. You might find yourself stuck in a limbo of “What are we?” wondering if you're going to get the commitment you … [Read more...] about The Situationship Trap: What To Do When You Want More
The Secret To Giving Any Woman An Orgasm: Communication Is Key
As a men's sex coach, I’ve learned one crucial thing that has changed my approach to intimacy. The secret to giving any woman an orgasm isn't a technique or trick—it's all about communication. Here's why, and how you can support … [Read more...] about The Secret To Giving Any Woman An Orgasm: Communication Is Key
Good Sex—The Spectrum of Safety and Pleasure
On September 29, 2024, we hosted our first Something Positive for Positive People Safe Sex Expo in New York City. The intention of this expo was to implement an intervention program to address the gaps in STI prevention that … [Read more...] about Good Sex—The Spectrum of Safety and Pleasure