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I'm learning and evolving doing my best to look at life as a never ending succession of growth opportunitie, instead of looking at things that don't go riight as mistakes. Part of this is taking care of me and intimacy I am learinng is so much greater than the sum of my parts being given or taken but always done as best i can so guilt and shame ain't this girls thing. I am not interested in sending you endless photos or jumping through hoops being submissive is not the same as being a doormat and so I live by a credo that is for me at 23 my very best rendering of how I want to engage life: "Do no harm. Take no shit.' I suppose that is rather trite but its mine all mine and so I have to love it!!! if you want to chat I will say I have been enjoying getting to know people on here I don't know how to tell if I am talking to a bot or not but I suppose keeep them guessing is what capitalism in 2024 thrives on. At the end of the day love yourself, love your friends and remdember that we often don't realize how much negative self talk we engage in throughout the day and it can cause so many mental health and even ptsd issues so my wish for all of us is that we start being kinder to ourselves and then we will be more inclined to build those around us up as we shouuld. This message has been brought to you by my patented turn that frown upside down technollogy. Don't forget to hug your stuffies and drink a glass of water before bed.