About

*So here's something I just figured out. I was getting messages, but no notifications. I'm quite sorry, and was not ignoring anyone. And I don't always sign in. Again, no offense meant if I don't answer!*

I will not post photos or videos of myself. It's too risky in my current environment. It doesn't mean that I don't want to or haven't thought about it. But if you're the type of person who rejects because I won't post a picture or video...well then, see that middle finger up there in the profile photo, because that IS mine.

I'm a SSBW (beauty is in the eye of the beholder, hence the missing "B"). Not proud of that, but apparently there are some people who enjoy it. I've never met them. I'm not into the sick feeder/feedee things. I would simply like to meet a man who likes women my size in a non-fetish way, just as other men prefer slender women.

If I don't respond to your friend request or message, please don't take it personally. You might be very young or asking me to chat with you or that sort of thing. I am extremely selective, as I have to be careful for a number of reasons.

I like older men. For as much as I know about sex, I'm inexperienced in much of its execution, dating and relationships. If you're a patient, kind but confident teacher-type, we might get along. I learn quickly, and I'm enthusiastic and loyal. It just takes coaxing to get me out of my shell.

I haven't had sex in a long, long time. Maybe a presidential administration or two. Or three. But even then, no one successfully gave me an orgasm. Only recently, in my mid-30s, have I learned exactly how to pleasure myself. I pushed myself past my limit and Christ, does it feel good. I do worry about being able to come with a partner. I think I could come from being properly eaten out, and I won't lie - my ultimate fantasy is having my clit sucked, ass licked and nipples sucked all at once. But that's a lot of people in the bedroom, so I suppose I'd just have to take it one or two at a time. I might be open to couples who are looking for a discreet third person, a SSBBW specifically, to join their play.

I'm not perky. I'm not too political...a little cynical. I quote Kid Rock and my therapist in my e-mail signature. I'm way more sexual than anyone would ever guess. And being a fat girl, well, no one likes to think that you are a sexual being or might be considered sexy by someone.