About

Interested in having friends from all over the world - to share the knowledge of the diverse ways men interact and have sexual contact with other men, From the various reasons to the forms and ways men express desire, closeness, aggression, release, spirituality, ritual and even survival. From the situational sex, sex that happened one time in a man's life for whatever reason and then never again, the 60-year-old ultra-masculine grandfather who suddenly discovered he has a deep desire that is about to overwhelm him and is just totally confused, to the teenager who has always known what his desires are: but is OK with living a life starting with an arranged marriage and then keeping his desires a secret from everyone for the rest of his life, to the man who has reached the point of not caring if he gets caught and makes a statement like "Life is short and I would rather die living MY life.. than to live the life someone else wants me to live", Yes, there are cultural, economic, social, biological and many more factors that drive men to have sex with each other - I want to know more about it, from research, films, podcast, firsthand accounts it's out there. Stories, fantasies, legends and folklore and even porn all tell us something and I want to learn.

It brings me joy throughout the day to think about what I will want to do when I retire in about 2 years or so (if I make it), One of those things is to produce an international website by, for and about men who have sex with men. I envision many parts to it - social (from pen pals to hook-ups to international chat rooms), informational (self-help, medical, legal, political and even research in fields like sociology, anthropology, history etc., and even news and current events) and an artistic section with music, art and other things like a travel section. I have no idea about how to build a website, and even less of a clue what would happen if I was able to get one done. However, I would love to be in contact with men from around the world - for ideas and inspiration (yes, I know it takes 1% inspiration and 99% perspiration to get thing done) but your thoughts and feelings about building such a web site means a lot to me.