About

*UNDER CONSTRUCTION** New to this site as of 10/6/14

updated 10/12/14

GIRLS!! **COMMUNICATE!!** I know it's natural for you younger women to be shy & quiet especially when you're new to all of this. Us older men that like you younger women don't expect anything up-front but you have to communicate. Even if you don't know what to say .. SAY THAT!! SAY SOMETHING, SAY ANYTHING - JUST BE PRESENT. A mature man who knows his way around this lifestyle (& life in general) will take your hand & make the rest happen .. but you have to be present in order for things to move forward.

I am not new to the scene nor to Fetlife. I will be building this profile as I go. Short version (for now), I am looking to mentor, train, teach new submissive women (and or) aspiring slaves & those who feel they are in need of some brushing up on their skills and or behaviors. Ultimate goal is to find one, sweet, dedicated woman for forever.

**THE KINKY SIDE**
I believe in balance. I am kinky, vanilla, wild, tame .. I guess it's what you call well rounded. When it comes to the kinky side of me, I would say that it's more mental than physical. I am very sexual but not into much of the physical stimulation that surrounds the kink community. I am not into receiving any pain and not into giving a lot of pain. Giving a good spanking, (maybe using a crop) and pulling your hair, of course, but not into "pain sluts". I lean more to the mental side of things .. to me, the mind is much more powerful than anything else. Having a close & intense emotional connection between two people is when this intense connection will develop. To me, a good mind fuck is more intense than any kind of pain that can be given. (*And yes, I know that's my opinion, but that's one thing I love about this lifestyle .. each to his own*). It will be my goal to to keep you wet and attention focused on me at all times & I will own your body. This can only come when two people are in agreement, both lives are in order, and their relationship is strong and a good foundation has been constructed. I like to reward a good girl and punish the one who dis-obeys or can't complete simple tasks. I like a win/win situation, one where I do something nice for you that makes you feel special, which makes you do something nice for me, which makes me want to do something nice for .. and around & round we go in a happy circle of making each other happy.

**THE VANILLA SIDE**
About the vanilla side of me: I am what I would describe as a manly man .. a true "man's man". I come from a long line of natural Alpha males and am naturally dominant in everyday life, yet I have compassion and have a sensitive side. (balanced) I am honest, loyal to a fault, have great communication skills, am open minded, & non-judgmental. I was born & raised in the Rocky Mtns on good morals, strong ethics and believe in treating others how you want to be treated. Family and friends are an important part of my life. I have many friends that I have been close with since high school. I have a great job and have been in the same industry all my life. I have a nice home in the country where wildlife, serenity, and silence run deep. I am most at peace when I am in the mountains, and the further in the back-country, the better .. it's where I re-charge my soul. I can do just about anything, from harvesting big game, processing all the meat myself, cooking, sewing, cleaning, working in the shop, welding , fabricating, wood work, driving truck, operating heavy equipment, to navigating my way on the internet, or finding my way around a city, business development, and more ..

**DESCRIPTION OF IDEAL MATCH**
It's almost easier saying what I don't like because there is so much that I do like and very little that I don't like .. so I'll mention a bit of each. Turn-offs & deal breakers. Smokers, substance abuse issues, criminals, ex meth heads, over weight, BBW, (come on we all have our preferences), alcoholics, unruly children. OK, hate writing negative stuff so here's some things that I do look for. Naturally beautiful, hwp, (actually have a "petite" fetish), employed, have a car, close with your family, exercises a healthy lifestyle, being open minded, honest, and knowing how to communicate well.
Bonus points .. love the outdoors, camping, hiking, ocean trips, dive bars, hunting, crabbing ..
I don't really like "brats" .. don't challenge me, especially when you're much younger than me. It's just not mature & you should respect your elders. It's about trust. You should look up to me & trust me (in time). I don't like games and am allergic to drama .. I'll drop you faster than you can imagine .. have zero tolerance for it. You should be assertive, attentive, and be a good communicator. Things start slow and trust is built over time.

10/1/14 - Update / clarification. I am not particularly attracted to "littles". Example: If you are 22 and revert back to being 12 all the time or you need a binky or into diapers, or any of that .. not my thing. I like younger women not little girls.