About

Sixty and still relatively fit and active but part of a non-sexual marriage for the last couple of years after my wife suffered a major heart attack. Still very much a partner, but frustrated and confused. This site was suggested by a friend, and I have lurked in the shadows for a few months, watching, looking and you can guess what else.

To be clear, I am not looking to meet anyone. I suppose you could say that I have strayed by being here, even in a non-participating capacity. Kind of adultery by proxy. As far as I know, my wife is unaware of me looking at porn. She is very straight-laced and was never what you would call adventurous. Until coming here, I was probably equally ill-informed! But I have learned much in the time I spent in those shadows; looked at many ladies on the dating part of the site; found many fetishes and fantasies which have surprised and excited me.

So, I hope to meet and talk online with similarly minded ladies. Ladies who have no desire to meet but want to explore the erotic recesses of the mind, who like to excite and arouse and in turn be excited and aroused by suggestion and dialogue alone. Its a big ask, perhaps an impossible one and the first few weeks will determine if I keep or close my profile. I hope to hear from someone. Looks are unimportant. An open, inventive and receptive mind would be my wildest dream come true.