About

I am 47 year old dom who loves life. I work hard and play harder. I enjoy travel, sports, reading, cooking, and of course fetish play. I am a no-nonsense disciplinarian who is looking for women who need structure and accountability in their lives. A woman who understands the rewards of a spanking when needed or wanted. No wannabes or curious. I am looking for someone who has a passion for spanking and can't live without it.

My fetish is just about anything (looking to experience life and all it has to offer). However I love spanking - both for erotic role plays or for real disciplinary reasons. Implement wise, I tend to prefer the more "domestic" items such as belt, hairbrush, paddle, and hand. To me, a good relationship is a mix of kinky, companionship and fun.

I am searching for someone to get to know me better, hang out and to just have fun. I am not looking to rush things, I am learning to take my time and to find my center in my life. I am looking to find someone who is drama free and likes to be silly and can let down her hair and just have fun. I am seeking a woman who is intelligent and knows what she wants. Is confident and has her life in order. A woman who has deeply felt submissive needs and desires.

She wants to meet a wonderful man and through lots of communication develop a deep and meaningful bond of trust and respect. A man to whom she wants to give control over many things. She is comfortable with her body, loves lingerie, and wants to dress in a way that pleases her man. She wants to feel cared for and supported, and she wants to take care of and please him in return.

She loves performing oral on him, loves nothing more than sinking to her knees at his feet and slipping him past her lips, and waking him in the morning by taking his powerful erection in her mouth.

They have clearly defined boundaries and hard limits. He has set expectations so that she knows what will please him. She knows he will correct her when she disappoints him. She does not like that he is displeased, yet she enjoys, sometimes craves this correction, his firm hand connecting with her bare ass. And later, his soothing touches and words.

When they are in tune, the sex is exquisite. She likes to be pinned down, teasing touches, she must wait for it, her body is his medium, she is his muse. At times they make love. Others, he takes her with force, thinking about nothing other than taking his pleasure from her, using her to sate his need. He has appetites that must be quenched, and she drips at the mere thought of how much pleasure he takes from her.

She loves his attention, a light touch on the small of her back, his ear when she needs to be heard, his arms when she needs to feel protected, being pulled onto his lap when she needs to rest in his affection, his humor when she could use a laugh.

This is not fantasy, not a proposed role-play, this is real.

I am He. Are you she?

If the above resonates with you at all, I invite your personal message. I would love to get to know you. For professional reasons, I do not show faces on here unless you are a friend. I will by email or Kik, it's tit for tat. I show, you show, and build from there.

BDSM Test
98% Dominant
95% Master/Mistress
91% Sadist
91% Bondage giver
89% Owner
88% Degradation giver
86% Voyeur
84% Brat tamer
84% Switch
84% Experimentalist
82% Daddy/Mommy
74% Ageplayer
71% Primal (Hunter)
64% Non-monogamist
63% Masochist
63% Bondage receiver
60% Submissive
51% Degradation receiver
44% girl/boy
44% Vanilla
29% Exhibitionist
28% Brat
21% Slave
19% Primal (Prey)
8% All-Rounder
6% Pet