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Seeking female sex partner 40 - 55 in the UK South East...

So this is a little awkward...My wife, I`ll call her Kim for anonymity`s sake, has encouraged me to do this as she feels I might need it. I love her and the way she always thinks of others. We were occasional swingers and enjoyed couple to couple meets and the occasional party as an enhancement to 20 very happy years and two children together. Then came the nightmare of breast cancer. Two years in, after very skilled surgery to remove a tumor and still leave a breast that looks normal from any angle except from right underneath when naked (a bit late by then to be put off), the cancer is in remission. She has undergone absolutely horrible chemotherapy that left her bald, sick and weak, extensive radiotherapy, and is now taking the horrible hormone suppressant Tamoxifen, which leaves her with the feeling of being fat (wrongly), a lower sex drive and some discomfort when having intercourse. She wants to get back into our lifestyle and has said that this year`s Halloween party at a local club is her target. We spent a weekend last month with our favourite couple and indeed things went back to the way they were before for the evening, so great progress there, and hopefully this will continue. I have always had a special relationship with one woman, with the absolute blessings of her husband and my wife, that included a night away every year or so in a nice hotel, but now her marriage has failed due to her meeting a man she wants to have an exclusive future with, so I am now relegated to `intense platonic friend` status. I am happy for her and hope that the first flush of new love will last for her. So now you know why I am here. I am a normal man with my own hair and teeth (plus family, home, job, car and large motorcycle) and normal sex drive. I am somewhat gentle and love it when a sexy woman takes the lead and seduces me. I can be charming and humouous, as I discovered these were necessary attributes when I was a weedy young man without much confidence. I am not much of a drinker, which makes me a cheap date as I get drunk too quickly, but that doesn`t mean I don`t know how to have a good time. I don`t smoke or take drugs and don`t like to be around people who do. I am a former police officer and as such have a dislike of certain things and situations. I`d like to meet ladies who have the same desires, I suppose you could call them `friends with an additional level`. I can do the `suave businessman` or `James Bond` style characters but `rough builder` or `caveman` I`m not good at. Similarly I like sexy ladies, not outrageous or vulgar ladettes, for example I think that a sexy long dress that shows a bit of cleavage is far sexier than a mini dress that has virtually no front. I like to open doors for ladies and charm them, and I like them to be alluring and exciting. I don`t have a preferred physical type, as sexy ladies come in all colours, shapes and sizes. As a gentleman I believe they should come first, too! My ideal celebrity romp partner would have to be Kim Wilde or Kate Winslet (mmm how about both at the same time?) I am also quite comfortable helping a man satisfy his wife`s desires to play with two men and have some experience of being the `wing man` - lovely to see a lady really being treated in the way she wants to be. Well, I have waffled on a bit, haven`t I? Apologies for that. Ladies, if you haven`t fallen asleep and I interest you, please send me a message. If you message me please put my name Charles in the subject line. Would like to meet real people, please.