About

UPDATE!! PLEASE READ!!! - this profile was set up by my late husband. He passed away 7 months ago. He had been my master. He open up the world of pleasure to me with him, other men - under his direction or involvement, other women (oh I so glad he did that for me mmmmmmmm) he was a dominant and a bit of a sadist - I thought I was a sub it came so natural - I feel so liberated. But with the help of some lez-dom/sub action in the past month - I have discovered that I am what is called a switch. I LOVE being a sub - but there are some hot little women that I have found that I desire to dom - and hard, WOW. All of this is new. I am learning more everyday - I feel safe here - learning and exploring. I still travel a lot - I realize this is a life choice - to live sexually discrete but in a constant state of exploration and adventure. I must be weird because while I can't say I love everything I have tried equally - there is nothing from hard BDSM to slow sensual seduction to being subbed by multiple men or women to piss even - nothing I have experienced that I don't like or wouldn't do again. I think it is the act of experience - of trying things in a safe trusting setting to find the limits -that thrills me.
I am a workaholic. I have a largely unseen career that I love. I make talented musicians sound better and the mediocre sound great and the miserable sound good. There are so few in any genre that actually play and truly sing and write their own music any longer. So it makes easy work for me. I cannot for obvious reasons discuss any specifics so thanks for respecting that.
I need someone who is willing to find their boundaries, who wants to know the thrill of the unknown or taboo heck I think I want to find people for whom the idea of taboo doesn't exist. I am not meaning unethical or illegal or even amoral. Just abandon, goose pimples hot rushes and ....mmmm invite me please - I will try and figure out the photo thing as soon as possible Sorry guys but outside a good caning I have become committed to a a girl's girl.