Many things Iāve tried were like phases. Iād find them amazing and exciting and crazy at first. With most, over time, the more I did them, the less thrilling it would get until eventually, I fell out of doing it. Driving partially and fully naked, although I wouldnāt say I do it a lot, has never lost itās edge and excitement for me. i think one of the reasons is the spontaneity of it. I can be going through my day and find myself in the truck and just feel the urge and go for it. Despite how many times Iāve done it I still can get a case of the nerves and stop at just undoing a few buttons. O Read more
Seeking Someone with Drawing Skills
Iām a firm believer that there is no harm in asking for something you want. Dogging has been a big part of my sexual exploration. Despite the abundance of staged videos online, itās not something that people normally pull out a camera when participating. I am curious if there is someone with talent who may be up for drawing some of my more memorable experiences which I could describe to them. Fingers crossed. Read more
Cum Tributes - My Thoughts
I can still remember the first time a guy asked to tribute me and I had to get him to explain what it was. Now if he had asked me a few years earlier my thought would have been um thanks but no, no thanks. The thing is he asked me after I learned that I quite enjoy seeing men cum. Through my dogging experiences I learned that men can cum a variety of ways. Some spurt, some ooze, some have a little some a lot, some are runny some are thick. I also learned there is no way of telling how a guy will cum. Quite often it changes with the same guy. Ill openly admit I enjoy cum. I might even say Iām Read more
How to get what you want, sexually - my opinion
My opinions have been formed by my own experiences so I understand many others may have differing opinions and disagree with what I say. As always, that it their right. Now it may seem overly simple, I believe that if you have an unfulfilled sexual need/want/desire the ātrickā to turning that fantasy into reality is ... asking for it. Now this is where people start to tell themselves all the reasons why they canāt ask and Iāll ask you to put those on pause for the moment. The point I want to make is that if your goal is to make something actually happen with your friend/lover/partner/one nigh Read more
Reality vs Fantasy
Iām fairly new to xhamster but Iām finding things similar to adult sites Iāve used to meet people. Iāve met a few interesting people Iāve chatted with but the majority who msg me seem to have been stuck in fantasy. I keep adding more to my profile but am pretty sure most of those setting off my pet peeves arenāt reading it. Now I know there are many people in this site who come here to watch videos, fall into their fantasies and mastubate themselves silly. I have nothing against that, each to their own, itās just not for me. What I will admit annoys me more than a little are those people who Read more
Preconceptions of Sexuality - My Opinion
I remember a time not so long ago where I had a solid belief in how the world worked. A time when I could say various statements and have absolute conviction that what I was saying was truth, was fact. It was easy to feel that way because on so many topics if I said certain things out loud, I was confident Iād be surrounded by people nodding and declaring āof courseā. Everyone knows those things. Everything in my universe supported it. Men wanted sex more than women. Remembering it was all that boys thought of and talked about in school. Knowing it was our husbands poking us awake in the morn Read more