Tips For Men Seeking Hotwife Couples to Date
My wife and I have been married over 30 years. We have been in the lifestyle off and on for about 15 years. For about the last five years we have been mainly focused on the hot wife lifestyle. It has been an experience that has put our sex life on steroids. I am the one who goes through and finds the men that I think my wife would enjoy dating. I'm fairly good at it and she doesn't necessarily enjoy going through all the profiles and emails for that one great match. I don't mind sorting through it. But guys, there's some advice that I would like to give you.
While I am no expert in the lifestyle, and I don't speak for all hot wife couples, I do believe I can speak a little bit about what we are looking for and how to be successful with us as a hot wife couple. I have known numerous other hot wife couples who would agree with what I have to say so I think it might be useful information.
Hooking up with a hot wife will be far more challenging than hooking up with a single woman or even a married woman who is cheating. But, If you are lucky and if you find the right hot wife couple, it could prove to be one of the most fun, sexy and passionate relationships you've ever experienced.
It is challenging for several reasons. First, there is so much competition out there. So many men would love to fuck a married woman with no strings attached and no worry about her husband. There is something primal about a man wanting another man's woman. In a hot wife relationship he will get this without any obligations or expectation of anything but giving her sexual thrills.
But even more important than the competition is the fact that she does not NEED you. She does not NEED you for love or companionship. She does not she does not NEED you for family, nor for emotional or financial support. In the typical hot wife couple, she does not even NEED you for sex. She is going to fuck you because she DESIRES you. She has a passion to be with you. There has to be something about you that she is looking for to satisfy a desire or curiosity. You cannot be average to her. You have to be something she feels is special.
On the positive side, with that burning lust and desire that she has for you, your sex together will be off the charts. We sometimes have guys asking us; does she do anal, does she swallow, takes a facial, does she rim? These are naive questions because, if any woman has a true burning desire, she is very likely to do most of these things. Because she will be overcome by lust. She may not do them for just anyone. But she would probably do them for her favorite movie actor, rock star, country singer, sports figure or whoever else she has the hots for. I have seen my wife enthusiastically do things for some guys that she would not be keen on enjoying with me. Honestly, that's a huge turn-on because I can see that she is really into the man that she is with. The hot wife wants to be "into" you.
Guys, have read hundreds if not thousands of profiles. I have responded to and communicated with dozens and dozens of men. I have chosen several dozen of these for my wife to meet over the last 5 years or so. And she has had a strong desire to be with a number of them. Let me give you some tips on how to approach a hotwife couple and how to design your profile.
We believe that a picture is worth a thousand words. Most of you guys have really shitty pictures. Please do not post a picture of you with dark sunglasses on or a baseball cap on or a frown on. If you are wearing a hat, she will assume you have no hair. If you are wearing a frown, she will assume you have no teeth. And if you are wearing dark glasses, she will assume you have no soul. Seriously, the picture, especially the face picture is of crucial importance to us.
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The face picture should be a clear recent picture. If you have a picture with a beard and another picture where you are shaving clean, I doubt we will respond to you. We don't know what you will look like when we meet. And please do not post pictures of you holding the latest fish that you caught or some other dead a****l. It's not that we have something against hunters, it's just a sign of laziness when you can't take a picture specifically for this purpose.
And please present yourself for that first meeting in your best light. Do not show up wearing flip flops shorts and a ratty t-shirt. It doesn't make a good impression. And when you go out on a date with her please be fresh and clean and smooth and shaved and dressed respectfully. I can assure you that she will have spent plenty of time getting ready for you. She will be freshly waxed and manicured and pedicured. She will have on makeup and fresh lipstick and her sexiest lingerie or whatever you want her to wear, (even a collar). The point is you take the time to look good for her because she will definitely be doing that for you.
We have met so many great single, sexy men in the lifestyle. We have had them as friends and she has had them as lovers for years in some cases. We appreciate them like they appreciate us. Work out. Eat right. Take care of yourself and be classy and sexy. Your couple is out there and she wants that DESIRE in her life.
While I am no expert in the lifestyle, and I don't speak for all hot wife couples, I do believe I can speak a little bit about what we are looking for and how to be successful with us as a hot wife couple. I have known numerous other hot wife couples who would agree with what I have to say so I think it might be useful information.
Hooking up with a hot wife will be far more challenging than hooking up with a single woman or even a married woman who is cheating. But, If you are lucky and if you find the right hot wife couple, it could prove to be one of the most fun, sexy and passionate relationships you've ever experienced.
It is challenging for several reasons. First, there is so much competition out there. So many men would love to fuck a married woman with no strings attached and no worry about her husband. There is something primal about a man wanting another man's woman. In a hot wife relationship he will get this without any obligations or expectation of anything but giving her sexual thrills.
But even more important than the competition is the fact that she does not NEED you. She does not NEED you for love or companionship. She does not she does not NEED you for family, nor for emotional or financial support. In the typical hot wife couple, she does not even NEED you for sex. She is going to fuck you because she DESIRES you. She has a passion to be with you. There has to be something about you that she is looking for to satisfy a desire or curiosity. You cannot be average to her. You have to be something she feels is special.
On the positive side, with that burning lust and desire that she has for you, your sex together will be off the charts. We sometimes have guys asking us; does she do anal, does she swallow, takes a facial, does she rim? These are naive questions because, if any woman has a true burning desire, she is very likely to do most of these things. Because she will be overcome by lust. She may not do them for just anyone. But she would probably do them for her favorite movie actor, rock star, country singer, sports figure or whoever else she has the hots for. I have seen my wife enthusiastically do things for some guys that she would not be keen on enjoying with me. Honestly, that's a huge turn-on because I can see that she is really into the man that she is with. The hot wife wants to be "into" you.
Guys, have read hundreds if not thousands of profiles. I have responded to and communicated with dozens and dozens of men. I have chosen several dozen of these for my wife to meet over the last 5 years or so. And she has had a strong desire to be with a number of them. Let me give you some tips on how to approach a hotwife couple and how to design your profile.
We believe that a picture is worth a thousand words. Most of you guys have really shitty pictures. Please do not post a picture of you with dark sunglasses on or a baseball cap on or a frown on. If you are wearing a hat, she will assume you have no hair. If you are wearing a frown, she will assume you have no teeth. And if you are wearing dark glasses, she will assume you have no soul. Seriously, the picture, especially the face picture is of crucial importance to us.
Additional comments and things to do, see, hear or learn about:
The face picture should be a clear recent picture. If you have a picture with a beard and another picture where you are shaving clean, I doubt we will respond to you. We don't know what you will look like when we meet. And please do not post pictures of you holding the latest fish that you caught or some other dead a****l. It's not that we have something against hunters, it's just a sign of laziness when you can't take a picture specifically for this purpose.
And please present yourself for that first meeting in your best light. Do not show up wearing flip flops shorts and a ratty t-shirt. It doesn't make a good impression. And when you go out on a date with her please be fresh and clean and smooth and shaved and dressed respectfully. I can assure you that she will have spent plenty of time getting ready for you. She will be freshly waxed and manicured and pedicured. She will have on makeup and fresh lipstick and her sexiest lingerie or whatever you want her to wear, (even a collar). The point is you take the time to look good for her because she will definitely be doing that for you.
We have met so many great single, sexy men in the lifestyle. We have had them as friends and she has had them as lovers for years in some cases. We appreciate them like they appreciate us. Work out. Eat right. Take care of yourself and be classy and sexy. Your couple is out there and she wants that DESIRE in her life.
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