Dick Pics

I'm new to writing, although I've been a member of XHamster for some time (a few years before membership), so forgive this observation if you've heard it before.

I. Don't. Get. Dick Pics.

It makes no sense to me. It's objectification times 10. If this is all dicks and pussies, then the people i've met here are an anomoly.

I've always been keenly aware of the dehumanizing habit of porn to focus on just one part of the body, especially women. breasts, vaginas, mouths and hands. The women I know don't like it, mostly because it tends towards body parts and away from the person who owns those body parts.

So why do men need to show their dicks? I suspect because they see the same porn and embrace the lack of personhood that comes with it.

I for one can see the value in seduction. One of the best female images I've seen recently is a full length woman in a clingy dress that shows off all her assets without being 'in your face'. actually pretty amazing. So i'm thinking, guys, how about a couple tight jeans pics? as full length as your modesty and safety will allow.

Think subtle.