Remember...The Feeder, the Alpha Male, has the rig

Choose who will service Him
Choose when to get serviced
Choose where to get serviced
Choose how to get serviced
Choose how long to get serviced
Choose how often to get serviced
Choose His method of climaxing (face, mouth, throat, etc)
What does that leave for the cocksucker to choose???

Just one thing...

Whether to say yes or no
This is the sexual life of a faggot cocksucker. Your pleasure is an afterthought. Accept it. Embrace it. Live it.