Weird avatars

I know some men really feel like they need to advertise their best friend. Who is their penis. There are some amazing ones out there. Still even for those men truly like a horse, who clear out a stable of whores because they really are too big you are more than your penis. I think you maybe hurting your chances with women if you throw up a penis on your avatar. You could just go with a phallic symbol like the George Washington monument.
Then there are men with women on their avatars who are looking for women. Confusing.
I'm sure there are [lenty of men who are on here as a lark claim to be women, and a few women who claim to be men. Well we all lie about sex. Still there is no need to hide ones actual sex, if you are looking for a man and you are a man, you can just be a gay man...it's 2018 not 1970. Yes there is a double standard when it comes to bi men and bi women. Bi women are more accepted. Still they don't have it all that easy. Although there are far more bi sexuals than totally straight or totally homosexuals people. Yes most human beings are bi sexual, but it is not accepted that people be just that. It is rational to claim to be straiht or gay and act that way when one is actually bi.