I have a small dick but it's what you can do

I have a small penis when it is soft but when it gets hard it's a normal 5 inch cock. Because of this I don't chat up women so I've not been laid for over 5 years!! I have 2 questions

1 Should the size of my cock stop me

2 Is there anyone on here that would shag me?

I prefer BBW but obviously beggars can't be choosers