How do you cope?

Well, as the title suggests, how do you cope with things, life in general, sexual frustration, admiration and sometimes, the fear of the unknown?
We all have sexual frustration, why else would we be here lol, but sometimes it can be so bad that we make silly mistakes, say the wrong thing, or even turn to another for a desired effect. Some people would say its wrong, others would agree with the knowledge that all of us are here for really the same thing, to have fun in this secret society, to find a person who clicks with us like no one else can, and to have a great time doing it.
I have had encounters on here in the past, when I first joined the site many moons ago, but I like many others, found someone who fitted my ideal search. Funny, witty, sexy as fuck and seemed to say and do all the right things, just one problem, it was never realised in the real world.
You can have a mass of people liking you, your updates, vids and pics, but who really does mean what they say, after all we are all strangers who have different fantasies and desires, be them online or real. Who is brave enough to go for what they want, hoping that the person they want actually wants them?
Am I nursing a bruised ego? Maybe! Do I want to talk to my friend? Every fucking day! Does the site of his cock turn me on? Really, do bears shit in the woods!
Have you closed the door on a friend because it has been frustrating, not talking, not seeing them, not knowing what they are doing?

I have tried to close my door, but it keeps staying ajar, waiting for a head to pop round it and say hi. I'm not sure how long I have to wait, but I always do, its my fix, my smile throughout the day and my thoughts when I am sat alone at night.

I'm passionate, bad tempered, short fused, not so green and a fighter.

What makes you tick, what are your weakness's and what are your strengths, do you have someone who lifts your day, but can also crush it in one word. I would love to know, but understand some people just cannot open that secret door fully yet, this blog is open for your own comments on life love and everything you were afraid to admit, give it a try.

Published by redhead123
8 years ago
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wetnhornybbw
wetnhornybbw 5 years ago
So very very true , no matter how much you want to leave that person behind you cant ,, I haver never read a truer word than what you have wrote , really hit home thisĀ 
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mandroid30 8 years ago
Wow. What you have written here is something every one of us can connect with. You have penned down such powerful and strong facets of human mind in such an effortless and easy manner, that everyone will be able to reflect on this and take courage and still be crazy enough to dream and nurture fantasies. After all what is life sans dreams and fantasies right?
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666Rhino
666Rhino 8 years ago
'To thy own self Be True'. All else follows, and remember:-
If there was no Pain you'd never know Pleasure.
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Novocaine1 8 years ago
Keep on keeping on Red. Never for one single moment let the fuckers keep you down!!
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PhilHuruppe
PhilHuruppe 8 years ago
All relationships, online or otherwise, come with a measured risk. There is no guarantee anyone will always be there for any of us. Someone who rocks our world today may make us yawn tomorrow. When a cock presents itself, you have to grab it and ride the fuck out of it while it lasts and is enjoyable.
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lazarou
Life wouldn't be as exciting as it is without the challenges and frustrations we deal with. We all tend to keep the online world separate to reality when actually they are both part of the same existence. The only key to happiness is to do as you really want with no hesitation. I have the same... I have in my reality someone who is able at the drop of a hat to lift me or crush me... Whilst I have met lots of people from here in reality what they offer me is not more than sexual recompense. It's always at the back of my mind with online friends as to whether I really know them. Maybe we all need to blur the lines a little bit. Just my thoughts.
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