This shit has got to change
This originally started as a comment to a story I read on xhamster about a guy who was bummed he got set up on a date with a bbw, and was initially not looking forward to it. But he gave it a try and finally figured out what he'd been missing.
My comment started short but eventually went off on my feelings about this topic and the body shaming that goes on in our culture. So this blog with start off where I left off on my comment to this particular member's story:
I hope you keep your mind open and have realized big girls can be sexy, intelligent, beautiful, considerate, and the list goes on. Us guys that realize this have to understand that after a lifetime of body-shaming, many of them are going to get down own their body appearance. We need to show these beautiful women that there are guys out there that are sincerely attracted to them and don't care what fat shaming culture has to say about it. I think it starts by us coming out of the "closet" so to speak. We need to come out and show all the big girls out there that we are not going to be ashamed or embarrassed by any of these ridiculous social rules, enforced by the douchy, judgemental members of our communities.
The number of guys attracted to bigger girls is much larger than most think. The problem is guys are too chicken shit to admit that they like girls with more to love. When we as men can get outta that damn fat shaming closet, women can start the process of realizing big girls are just as sexy (more sexy in my opinion) than the social norm. When dudes don't show their attraction you cannot blame women for feeling like they aren't attractive which doesn't help their confidence.
I say, next time you fella's that know you are attracted to bigger girls passes a prett female on the street, flash them a smile at least! Or just say something as simple as "you look nice today" and maybe a compliment about what she's wearing or her hair or something; and please try to keep it non-creeper-esk. You won't get slapped and you just might have made that girl's day a lot better.
Just some of my thoughts and feelings about all this terrible body shaming.
And c'mon guys, look in the mirror every once in awhile just as a reminder you're most likely not as smooth and good looking as you think you are, so quit acting like you're above other people and their feelings.
My comment started short but eventually went off on my feelings about this topic and the body shaming that goes on in our culture. So this blog with start off where I left off on my comment to this particular member's story:
I hope you keep your mind open and have realized big girls can be sexy, intelligent, beautiful, considerate, and the list goes on. Us guys that realize this have to understand that after a lifetime of body-shaming, many of them are going to get down own their body appearance. We need to show these beautiful women that there are guys out there that are sincerely attracted to them and don't care what fat shaming culture has to say about it. I think it starts by us coming out of the "closet" so to speak. We need to come out and show all the big girls out there that we are not going to be ashamed or embarrassed by any of these ridiculous social rules, enforced by the douchy, judgemental members of our communities.
The number of guys attracted to bigger girls is much larger than most think. The problem is guys are too chicken shit to admit that they like girls with more to love. When we as men can get outta that damn fat shaming closet, women can start the process of realizing big girls are just as sexy (more sexy in my opinion) than the social norm. When dudes don't show their attraction you cannot blame women for feeling like they aren't attractive which doesn't help their confidence.
I say, next time you fella's that know you are attracted to bigger girls passes a prett female on the street, flash them a smile at least! Or just say something as simple as "you look nice today" and maybe a compliment about what she's wearing or her hair or something; and please try to keep it non-creeper-esk. You won't get slapped and you just might have made that girl's day a lot better.
Just some of my thoughts and feelings about all this terrible body shaming.
And c'mon guys, look in the mirror every once in awhile just as a reminder you're most likely not as smooth and good looking as you think you are, so quit acting like you're above other people and their feelings.
8 years ago
