10 Fears That I Had Before I Asked To Be Pegged

1. Fear of significant other thinking you are gay and on the down low

2. Fear that significant other may look at you differently or decide that she doesn't want to be a part of it and leave.

3. Afraid to talk about kinks with a significant other because we don't grow up in a sex-positive, inclusive environment where people feel free to talk.

4. Simply don't know how to explain to a significant other what it is that you want. Afraid to come off like a babbling idiot or at a loss for words.

5. Don't really know what we want.

6. Fears of other people finding out.

7. Fear of it hurting and you being in pain

8. Fearful because of the culture of toughness we are brought up in: Told that we can't show weakness, have to be alpha males, masculine, BBC, stallions. (Men don't cry)

9. Religious teachings in African American households preaching that acts involving kink/ anal are wrong and a sin.

10. Fearful that you may enjoy it too much