Sexual enhancement for over 50's - Part 3
III. Intense Sex Stimulation â Special Techniques (for adventurous souls)
Male to male pleasure can be enhanced significantly by special techniques that many guys either are ignorant of and/or skip over in their haste to get their rocks off to get to maximum pleasure and gratification . In this section we will talk about two aspects of expanding the pleasure of male sex both in terms of intensity and duration.
Every sex act is special because it represents an opportunity to connect physically and psychologically with another male. Next to eating and survival sex is the most important behavior that men have. We need to make the most of it.
We have covered the important role of fantasy, anticipation and role playing during sex. What goes on between your ears is just as important as what goes on between your legs. We would add to that the importance of removing the endless chatter that goes on in your mind: Who is this guy? What does he really like, what turns him on (and off)? How safe is sex with him? Who has he had sex with? Does he do anal? This noise has to go.
A big chunk of the chatter can be eliminated by knowing the sexual preferences and sexual history of your partner. Both you and your partner should fill out the Sexual Preference and History. One should read the questions aloud and record the answers. Then swap roles. Everyone has an experience base and has things they like to do as well as things they donât and boundaries between the two. Why not know these in detail? In the heat of the moment boundaries can be pushed back. Sex can be as simple as a parallel stroking session to intimate intercourse ⊠it depends on chemistry and is built on knowledge shared man to man.
The amazing thing is you will remember every answer your partner gives. When sex is concerned our brains are locked in and focused. Not only will you know this stuff about your partner, you can relax and move into easy conversation and intimacy. There will likely be a much higher probability of satisfying him and being thoroughly aroused and satisfied yourself. No wondering . . . Youâll have made an important investment and established mutual knowing and trust.
Starting with basic Male Sex
Starting with male parts, and understanding how the various nerves play a part in building toward a good orgasm is key to having top level sex. We all know how to jerk off â stroking cock up and down until you cum. You may have noticed that some guys like the up and down motion to include the shaft only⊠while others prefer a bit of overlap of the finger-thumb ring to include to edge of the cock head (Corona). (Weâre talking about cut guys here). This âpartial stimulationâ of the Glans followed by a downward stroke on the cock is key to understanding the tension-relief aspect of stimulation of the penis.
Friction of the Glans creates sex tension â more specifically it heightens it. The friction down the shaft relieves that tension and feels good. Pre orgasm friction on the head creates a tension-charge that shoots down to the prostate. Repeated action of tension-relief produces a âmilking actionâ that eventually triggers and overwhelms the sex centers in the brain which leads to a command to ejaculate and the prostate contracts violently and repeatedly.
To a certain extent, the rhythm of the throbs of cum reflect stroking frequency of strokes up and down the cock made by jerking off. You may notice if you ever jerk off your cock very slowly, the spurts of cum are slower. Going really slowly can lead to a prolonged âtime at the topâ of orgasm which is quite intense and pleasurable. If you have time (and ability) to slow down, this can be very rewarding. A very slow Hand Job on your partner (with plenty of lube and attention to including his cockhead in each stroke can really produce a wild and prolonged moment âat the climaxâ of pleasure. The urge to jerk faster at the end is hard to resist so your partner may need to be tied down or restrained so that he canât jump in and take over stroking to finish himself off.
A large part of the excitement of sex between two men (as opposed to âgoing soloâ) is the unpredictability of sexual stimulation and either holding back or alterations from your normal sexual routine.
Following orgasm the cock head usually becomes so intensely sensitive (tension producing) that further stimulation canât be tolerated, forcing the male to stop moving or thrusting following intercourse . From an evolutionary standpoint this cessation served a purpose in allowing the female to escape, the maleâs function of fertilization having been completed.
Building sex tension in your partner by cockhead friction (without relief of shaft stroking) can intensify subsequent sexual experience. To do this hold you partners cock in your fist, lube his cock head and using the flat palm of your hand in a circular motion on the head, stimulating the cockhead. Done well this can create a lot of tension. Restraining your partner is sometimes necessary and is a further turn on for him. The tension from this kind of stimulation is intense⊠so much so that this is difficult to do on oneself.
A minute or so of stimulation of this kind can, when followed by a dozen shaft strokes can easily lead to a good cum. Sometimes following this (circular head stimulation) with a few licks with the tongue of the underside of the penis near the head (the frenulum) or a few sucks of the cockhead and corona is all that is needed to produce a violent orgasm.
An interesting variant of this âhead stimulationâ as a preliminary step to orgasm is to complement head stimulation with prostate massage in place of shaft stroking. Again, powerful orgasms can be produced very quickly using these techniques.
The Power of Prostate Massage in producing fast and intense orgasms.
If you want powerful and intimate sex, youâve go to get over issues related to anal sex. Key to anal sex is eliminating hygienic concerns. Use a latex or nitrile glove or, if these are not available simply use a condom (lubed in and out) and your finger in your partnerâs rectum, preferably while you look into his eyes and savor the moment when you violate his most private place and take control of his sexuality This technique ends the issue of worrying about âmore than you bargained forâ with anal sex . Guys need to prepare for sex by having the right tools at hand. Weâre not a group of thirteen year olds having a circle jerk behind the barn anymore.
The basic fact is that the prostate is the center and the physical trigger for male orgasm. You want to cum intensely and cum fast, stimulate the prostate with anal toys, penis, finger and WHAM youâre on a very short fuse to cumming. Located about an inch inside the rectum, its easy to reach. Not all males react the same to direct prostate stimulation. Whether or not you buddy is âcleaned outâ is important to know. Ask him how he feels about âbeing fingeredâ in advance to getting into involved sex. Its also a good segway to understand whether or not intercourse is on the agenda. Also whether or not condoms are available, accessible and desired.
There are a variety of ways to stimulate the postate, but be aware of the fact that messing around with it means its âorgasm timeâ usually in fifteen to thirty seconds. And that is involuntary on the part of your partner. Shoving your finger up your partners ass and moving it the right way will take away his ability to prolong your sex session, he is helpless (enjoying every second of it though).
Moving the finger the âright wayâ is important. This is NOT finger fucking but moving you finger the same way has if you were beckoning a person to come across the room to you. This puts a massaging and stronger stroking action directly on the prostate which you will feel stiffen as your partner goes âover the topâ. What you feel immediately is rhythmic contractions of the anal sphincter that is accompanied by cum squirting out of his cock.
Armed with this âinformationâ you are now in a position to take control of your partnerâs orgasm, making it happen when YOU want it to. He doesnât directly âfeelâ when you do this prostate stimulation, he just experiences a sudden need and urgency to cum and he loses control.
Being able to pull the trigger is a wonderful thing. If your parter is having trouble âgetting offâ you can solve that problem. This special enhancement to sexual encounters can be reserved for special occaisions. It can become part of sex play and fantasy. You can play âarm the grenadeâ by shoving a finger up your buddies butt and no one knows when the pin is pulled out (except you). He knows your finger is on the hot button and youâll be aware of his impending orgasm five seconds before he unloads.
Whether or not you utilize prostate massage, having a finger up your partnerâs ass gives you a way of monitoring âwhere he isâ as his sexual pleasure mounts. With âexperienceâ youâll get to know the signs of mounting pleasure by preliminary contractions of his asshole that indicate increasing sexual tension. Being present to these things as well being in there during the orgasm itself allows you to more fully experience his cumming and gather vicarious pleasure for yourself. Nothing beats sucking a guy off, working his prostate and feeling his cum shooting in your mouth at the same time as his ass is throbbing on your finger!
There are other mechanical means of stimulating the prostate. Anal vibrators are powerful and fast. Anal beads can be inserted deep in the rectum early and pulled by the prostate as one is âvery closeâ to cumming. This requires a lot of communication between partners and can be messy. You also are not aware of where your partner is and arenât as present to his orgasm.
Fucking penises certainly do a good job of stimulating the prostate, particularly when equipped with a âtickler condomâ or embellished with a cock piercing (see below). However âcocks in actionâ tend to have a mind of their own are often, if their owners donât pull out most of the way (leaving only the cockhead âinâ) the cum flow of the bottom is inhibited . Unlike a finger, a cock only feels âgoodâ, â betterâ and âbest.â It doesnât have key sensory perceptive nerves like a finger.
Have you noticed in porn films or perhaps in having sex with guys that they move their legs further apart and may heave their hips forward just prior to and in the act of ejaculating? This is a biologically programmed event to remove all impediments to ejaculating cum out of the cock. What you may not notice, but what is essential also is the the muscles around the urethra stiffen and semen fills it so that the contractions of the prostate are effectively transmitted and pressure is maintained to get cum out and not have the power lost in soft walls of the urethra. The more cum you shoot, the better if feels. Young guys shoot up to eleven times with the first couple of shots hitting their face and upper chest. Older guysâ prostates are often enlarged and the produce a lot less cum. And its unlikely to be tossed in the air. Still feels pretty fantastic. But the rule is, the larger the load, the more pleasure. You have probably noticed that, when youâre really turned on when you cum, the ejaculation is more violent.
Load size is determined by abstinence. It is also increased by sustained sexual arousal. All this argues for you to invest time in mutual sexual arousal with your partner. You need to spend time up front with sex play, fantasy, direct stimulation, porn, talk, body stimulation âŠ. Because during all that time, your body is preparing a cum load for you to enjoy.
The popularity of âPrince Albertâ penis piercing (ring on underside of cock near tip) is due, in part, to a recognition of the ringâs value in stimulating the prostate during intercourse. Not just an ornamental piercing, the owner really believes in having his cockâs enhanced ability to deliver maximum pleasure to those men he fucks. A guy with a Prince Albert cock knows what heâs doing and what heâs got. If your partner has one, itâs a sure bet that he likes intercourse⊠and being a top.
Some of the more far out ways of stimulating the prostate include insertion of ice cube up the ass moments before orgasm (residential refridge icemakerâs are more easily inserted than square cubes) can produce violent orgasms like you had when you were 19. There are electro stimulation devices and anal plugs and vibrating sounding rods that can stimulate the prostate (none of which the author has tried and are probably a bit dangerous). If you are serious about giving and receiving intense sex in the October to December portions of your life, you cannot afford to overlook invoking the powerful sex experiences that stimulation of the prostate can provide.
Ultimate Sex
One of the drawbacks of sex is the precipitous drop in interest in sex that occurs for many men immediately after they cum. This translates into one partner â the one who comes first â having to carry on to finish off the other guy, when most of their sexual energy and interest has fallen off the cliff. But now, with the ability to bring on a partnerâso orgasm quickly, its possible to achieve simultaneous orgasm. The secret is to combine 69 with prostate stimulation. In any other sexual configuration, you now know how the partner who is âready to cumâ can stimulate the other to catch up fast.
Sixty Nining, as you feel yourself getting close to orgasm you can massage your partnerâs prostate and bring him along over the top at the same time you go. And if heâs ahead of you, he could do the same thing. This means you can both experience orgasm very close to the same moment. Imagine feeling his cock cumming in your mouth the same moment youâre losing your load in his . . . This is mind blowing stuff. Its gets better and better with practice.
The ability to experience simultaneous orgasms together can lead to very close bonding between men.
It has a lasting physical and psychological effect.
One way or another, prostate stimulation needs to be seriously considered as a means of enhancing sexual pleasure. This is especially true for guys who are older. The prostate is the seat of male sexual response, its where the most powerful sexual responses lie. Younger guys donât need this kind of supercharging. With it they will consistently get off way too fast. Indeed some young guys will get off simply with the stimulation of being fucked or having their prostate massaged (no cock stimulation what-so-ever).
The older you are, the more important direct prostate stimulation becomes in having powerful orgasms.
Fucking
If you are into fucking you need to make adequate preparation. This involves enemas. Unless youâre into s**t (which few men are) making oneâs ass a dual function organ is a chore. You need to make serious decisions about safety and partners. Mixing d**gs, alcohol and sexual enhancers (poppers) that make you inclined to make unwise decisions, is a very bad idea when youâre ready to put your legs in the air or are presenting your man cunt to another for servicing. Wrong decisions can be life altering.
Fucking bare means sharing your sex history. Permanently. Itâs really only for committed, monogamous partners. And guys will be guys. There are those occaisional meanderings that men are likely to make because they are men, and seeding another sexy guy or entertaining him between your legs is⊠well⊠very rewarding. Or maybe irresistible. For many malesâŠ. Fucking is really for guys who are married (to each other).
While the thought of feeling /knowing that hot seed is being fired up your ass, or the thought of feeling his seed leaking down your thighs is hot, think NOT a good idea.
Sounding ? Are you serious? What does this have to do with sounds?
Yes, yesâŠ. And nothing.
The urethra can be a source of sexual pleasure. After all, doesnât the moment of highest sex pleasure occur as the urethra stiffens and cum is surging along it?
However, donât think youâre alone in having misgivings at the prospect of having a metal sound inserted up/into your cock. And if youâre introduction to a âset of soundsâ (graduated sizes) makes you gasp at the possibility that anything short of a horse could not accommodate the largest size.. you would not be alone.
First before anything, never insert anything up your cock which can break, get lost (unretrievable) or which is not sterile (could produce infection). These things lead to considerable discomfort both physically and psychologically at home and during your hospital visit. Like the guy who had to explain to Emergency Room personnel why he had a shot glass up his ass ( âI sat on itâ ) explaining how a bobby pin got stuck in your urethra can be difficult and humiliating when you are in pain and full of fear. Only put legitimate sounding devices (highly polished steel rods) in your dick. And do so only with lube and in near sterile conditions. (You donât want to get a yeast or other infection).
Read about doing this, watch a YouTube video, buy legitimate Hager Sound Set on Amazon ($24 plus shipping). Wash your cock and hands. Dip the sound in alcohol. Go slow with smallest size first.
Why do (admittedly adventurous) guys . . . sound? Well because its pleasurable, and itâs a new sexual frontier. It feels really good to jerk off (especially slowly with lube) while the sound in your cock. It can be done with a partner, where he controls the sound moving is slowly in and out about an inch while you jerk your cock. Then just as you are about to cum he pulls it out relatively quickly. You never want to impede the flow of semen when you cum so youâve got to have your timing right. Clear communication is essential. Sounding also lends itself to âboundâ situations where the bound person is helpless to prevent this invasion of his body. The partners definitely need some experience with sounding each other prior to doing this.
TO BE CONTINUED . . .
Sex toys : Dildos, Vibrators, Pumps, Fuck Machines, Electro Stim, Penis and Anal Plugs
Male to male pleasure can be enhanced significantly by special techniques that many guys either are ignorant of and/or skip over in their haste to get their rocks off to get to maximum pleasure and gratification . In this section we will talk about two aspects of expanding the pleasure of male sex both in terms of intensity and duration.
Every sex act is special because it represents an opportunity to connect physically and psychologically with another male. Next to eating and survival sex is the most important behavior that men have. We need to make the most of it.
We have covered the important role of fantasy, anticipation and role playing during sex. What goes on between your ears is just as important as what goes on between your legs. We would add to that the importance of removing the endless chatter that goes on in your mind: Who is this guy? What does he really like, what turns him on (and off)? How safe is sex with him? Who has he had sex with? Does he do anal? This noise has to go.
A big chunk of the chatter can be eliminated by knowing the sexual preferences and sexual history of your partner. Both you and your partner should fill out the Sexual Preference and History. One should read the questions aloud and record the answers. Then swap roles. Everyone has an experience base and has things they like to do as well as things they donât and boundaries between the two. Why not know these in detail? In the heat of the moment boundaries can be pushed back. Sex can be as simple as a parallel stroking session to intimate intercourse ⊠it depends on chemistry and is built on knowledge shared man to man.
The amazing thing is you will remember every answer your partner gives. When sex is concerned our brains are locked in and focused. Not only will you know this stuff about your partner, you can relax and move into easy conversation and intimacy. There will likely be a much higher probability of satisfying him and being thoroughly aroused and satisfied yourself. No wondering . . . Youâll have made an important investment and established mutual knowing and trust.
Starting with basic Male Sex
Starting with male parts, and understanding how the various nerves play a part in building toward a good orgasm is key to having top level sex. We all know how to jerk off â stroking cock up and down until you cum. You may have noticed that some guys like the up and down motion to include the shaft only⊠while others prefer a bit of overlap of the finger-thumb ring to include to edge of the cock head (Corona). (Weâre talking about cut guys here). This âpartial stimulationâ of the Glans followed by a downward stroke on the cock is key to understanding the tension-relief aspect of stimulation of the penis.
Friction of the Glans creates sex tension â more specifically it heightens it. The friction down the shaft relieves that tension and feels good. Pre orgasm friction on the head creates a tension-charge that shoots down to the prostate. Repeated action of tension-relief produces a âmilking actionâ that eventually triggers and overwhelms the sex centers in the brain which leads to a command to ejaculate and the prostate contracts violently and repeatedly.
To a certain extent, the rhythm of the throbs of cum reflect stroking frequency of strokes up and down the cock made by jerking off. You may notice if you ever jerk off your cock very slowly, the spurts of cum are slower. Going really slowly can lead to a prolonged âtime at the topâ of orgasm which is quite intense and pleasurable. If you have time (and ability) to slow down, this can be very rewarding. A very slow Hand Job on your partner (with plenty of lube and attention to including his cockhead in each stroke can really produce a wild and prolonged moment âat the climaxâ of pleasure. The urge to jerk faster at the end is hard to resist so your partner may need to be tied down or restrained so that he canât jump in and take over stroking to finish himself off.
A large part of the excitement of sex between two men (as opposed to âgoing soloâ) is the unpredictability of sexual stimulation and either holding back or alterations from your normal sexual routine.
Following orgasm the cock head usually becomes so intensely sensitive (tension producing) that further stimulation canât be tolerated, forcing the male to stop moving or thrusting following intercourse . From an evolutionary standpoint this cessation served a purpose in allowing the female to escape, the maleâs function of fertilization having been completed.
Building sex tension in your partner by cockhead friction (without relief of shaft stroking) can intensify subsequent sexual experience. To do this hold you partners cock in your fist, lube his cock head and using the flat palm of your hand in a circular motion on the head, stimulating the cockhead. Done well this can create a lot of tension. Restraining your partner is sometimes necessary and is a further turn on for him. The tension from this kind of stimulation is intense⊠so much so that this is difficult to do on oneself.
A minute or so of stimulation of this kind can, when followed by a dozen shaft strokes can easily lead to a good cum. Sometimes following this (circular head stimulation) with a few licks with the tongue of the underside of the penis near the head (the frenulum) or a few sucks of the cockhead and corona is all that is needed to produce a violent orgasm.
An interesting variant of this âhead stimulationâ as a preliminary step to orgasm is to complement head stimulation with prostate massage in place of shaft stroking. Again, powerful orgasms can be produced very quickly using these techniques.
The Power of Prostate Massage in producing fast and intense orgasms.
If you want powerful and intimate sex, youâve go to get over issues related to anal sex. Key to anal sex is eliminating hygienic concerns. Use a latex or nitrile glove or, if these are not available simply use a condom (lubed in and out) and your finger in your partnerâs rectum, preferably while you look into his eyes and savor the moment when you violate his most private place and take control of his sexuality This technique ends the issue of worrying about âmore than you bargained forâ with anal sex . Guys need to prepare for sex by having the right tools at hand. Weâre not a group of thirteen year olds having a circle jerk behind the barn anymore.
The basic fact is that the prostate is the center and the physical trigger for male orgasm. You want to cum intensely and cum fast, stimulate the prostate with anal toys, penis, finger and WHAM youâre on a very short fuse to cumming. Located about an inch inside the rectum, its easy to reach. Not all males react the same to direct prostate stimulation. Whether or not you buddy is âcleaned outâ is important to know. Ask him how he feels about âbeing fingeredâ in advance to getting into involved sex. Its also a good segway to understand whether or not intercourse is on the agenda. Also whether or not condoms are available, accessible and desired.
There are a variety of ways to stimulate the postate, but be aware of the fact that messing around with it means its âorgasm timeâ usually in fifteen to thirty seconds. And that is involuntary on the part of your partner. Shoving your finger up your partners ass and moving it the right way will take away his ability to prolong your sex session, he is helpless (enjoying every second of it though).
Moving the finger the âright wayâ is important. This is NOT finger fucking but moving you finger the same way has if you were beckoning a person to come across the room to you. This puts a massaging and stronger stroking action directly on the prostate which you will feel stiffen as your partner goes âover the topâ. What you feel immediately is rhythmic contractions of the anal sphincter that is accompanied by cum squirting out of his cock.
Armed with this âinformationâ you are now in a position to take control of your partnerâs orgasm, making it happen when YOU want it to. He doesnât directly âfeelâ when you do this prostate stimulation, he just experiences a sudden need and urgency to cum and he loses control.
Being able to pull the trigger is a wonderful thing. If your parter is having trouble âgetting offâ you can solve that problem. This special enhancement to sexual encounters can be reserved for special occaisions. It can become part of sex play and fantasy. You can play âarm the grenadeâ by shoving a finger up your buddies butt and no one knows when the pin is pulled out (except you). He knows your finger is on the hot button and youâll be aware of his impending orgasm five seconds before he unloads.
Whether or not you utilize prostate massage, having a finger up your partnerâs ass gives you a way of monitoring âwhere he isâ as his sexual pleasure mounts. With âexperienceâ youâll get to know the signs of mounting pleasure by preliminary contractions of his asshole that indicate increasing sexual tension. Being present to these things as well being in there during the orgasm itself allows you to more fully experience his cumming and gather vicarious pleasure for yourself. Nothing beats sucking a guy off, working his prostate and feeling his cum shooting in your mouth at the same time as his ass is throbbing on your finger!
There are other mechanical means of stimulating the prostate. Anal vibrators are powerful and fast. Anal beads can be inserted deep in the rectum early and pulled by the prostate as one is âvery closeâ to cumming. This requires a lot of communication between partners and can be messy. You also are not aware of where your partner is and arenât as present to his orgasm.
Fucking penises certainly do a good job of stimulating the prostate, particularly when equipped with a âtickler condomâ or embellished with a cock piercing (see below). However âcocks in actionâ tend to have a mind of their own are often, if their owners donât pull out most of the way (leaving only the cockhead âinâ) the cum flow of the bottom is inhibited . Unlike a finger, a cock only feels âgoodâ, â betterâ and âbest.â It doesnât have key sensory perceptive nerves like a finger.
Have you noticed in porn films or perhaps in having sex with guys that they move their legs further apart and may heave their hips forward just prior to and in the act of ejaculating? This is a biologically programmed event to remove all impediments to ejaculating cum out of the cock. What you may not notice, but what is essential also is the the muscles around the urethra stiffen and semen fills it so that the contractions of the prostate are effectively transmitted and pressure is maintained to get cum out and not have the power lost in soft walls of the urethra. The more cum you shoot, the better if feels. Young guys shoot up to eleven times with the first couple of shots hitting their face and upper chest. Older guysâ prostates are often enlarged and the produce a lot less cum. And its unlikely to be tossed in the air. Still feels pretty fantastic. But the rule is, the larger the load, the more pleasure. You have probably noticed that, when youâre really turned on when you cum, the ejaculation is more violent.
Load size is determined by abstinence. It is also increased by sustained sexual arousal. All this argues for you to invest time in mutual sexual arousal with your partner. You need to spend time up front with sex play, fantasy, direct stimulation, porn, talk, body stimulation âŠ. Because during all that time, your body is preparing a cum load for you to enjoy.
The popularity of âPrince Albertâ penis piercing (ring on underside of cock near tip) is due, in part, to a recognition of the ringâs value in stimulating the prostate during intercourse. Not just an ornamental piercing, the owner really believes in having his cockâs enhanced ability to deliver maximum pleasure to those men he fucks. A guy with a Prince Albert cock knows what heâs doing and what heâs got. If your partner has one, itâs a sure bet that he likes intercourse⊠and being a top.
Some of the more far out ways of stimulating the prostate include insertion of ice cube up the ass moments before orgasm (residential refridge icemakerâs are more easily inserted than square cubes) can produce violent orgasms like you had when you were 19. There are electro stimulation devices and anal plugs and vibrating sounding rods that can stimulate the prostate (none of which the author has tried and are probably a bit dangerous). If you are serious about giving and receiving intense sex in the October to December portions of your life, you cannot afford to overlook invoking the powerful sex experiences that stimulation of the prostate can provide.
Ultimate Sex
One of the drawbacks of sex is the precipitous drop in interest in sex that occurs for many men immediately after they cum. This translates into one partner â the one who comes first â having to carry on to finish off the other guy, when most of their sexual energy and interest has fallen off the cliff. But now, with the ability to bring on a partnerâso orgasm quickly, its possible to achieve simultaneous orgasm. The secret is to combine 69 with prostate stimulation. In any other sexual configuration, you now know how the partner who is âready to cumâ can stimulate the other to catch up fast.
Sixty Nining, as you feel yourself getting close to orgasm you can massage your partnerâs prostate and bring him along over the top at the same time you go. And if heâs ahead of you, he could do the same thing. This means you can both experience orgasm very close to the same moment. Imagine feeling his cock cumming in your mouth the same moment youâre losing your load in his . . . This is mind blowing stuff. Its gets better and better with practice.
The ability to experience simultaneous orgasms together can lead to very close bonding between men.
It has a lasting physical and psychological effect.
One way or another, prostate stimulation needs to be seriously considered as a means of enhancing sexual pleasure. This is especially true for guys who are older. The prostate is the seat of male sexual response, its where the most powerful sexual responses lie. Younger guys donât need this kind of supercharging. With it they will consistently get off way too fast. Indeed some young guys will get off simply with the stimulation of being fucked or having their prostate massaged (no cock stimulation what-so-ever).
The older you are, the more important direct prostate stimulation becomes in having powerful orgasms.
Fucking
If you are into fucking you need to make adequate preparation. This involves enemas. Unless youâre into s**t (which few men are) making oneâs ass a dual function organ is a chore. You need to make serious decisions about safety and partners. Mixing d**gs, alcohol and sexual enhancers (poppers) that make you inclined to make unwise decisions, is a very bad idea when youâre ready to put your legs in the air or are presenting your man cunt to another for servicing. Wrong decisions can be life altering.
Fucking bare means sharing your sex history. Permanently. Itâs really only for committed, monogamous partners. And guys will be guys. There are those occaisional meanderings that men are likely to make because they are men, and seeding another sexy guy or entertaining him between your legs is⊠well⊠very rewarding. Or maybe irresistible. For many malesâŠ. Fucking is really for guys who are married (to each other).
While the thought of feeling /knowing that hot seed is being fired up your ass, or the thought of feeling his seed leaking down your thighs is hot, think NOT a good idea.
Sounding ? Are you serious? What does this have to do with sounds?
Yes, yesâŠ. And nothing.
The urethra can be a source of sexual pleasure. After all, doesnât the moment of highest sex pleasure occur as the urethra stiffens and cum is surging along it?
However, donât think youâre alone in having misgivings at the prospect of having a metal sound inserted up/into your cock. And if youâre introduction to a âset of soundsâ (graduated sizes) makes you gasp at the possibility that anything short of a horse could not accommodate the largest size.. you would not be alone.
First before anything, never insert anything up your cock which can break, get lost (unretrievable) or which is not sterile (could produce infection). These things lead to considerable discomfort both physically and psychologically at home and during your hospital visit. Like the guy who had to explain to Emergency Room personnel why he had a shot glass up his ass ( âI sat on itâ ) explaining how a bobby pin got stuck in your urethra can be difficult and humiliating when you are in pain and full of fear. Only put legitimate sounding devices (highly polished steel rods) in your dick. And do so only with lube and in near sterile conditions. (You donât want to get a yeast or other infection).
Read about doing this, watch a YouTube video, buy legitimate Hager Sound Set on Amazon ($24 plus shipping). Wash your cock and hands. Dip the sound in alcohol. Go slow with smallest size first.
Why do (admittedly adventurous) guys . . . sound? Well because its pleasurable, and itâs a new sexual frontier. It feels really good to jerk off (especially slowly with lube) while the sound in your cock. It can be done with a partner, where he controls the sound moving is slowly in and out about an inch while you jerk your cock. Then just as you are about to cum he pulls it out relatively quickly. You never want to impede the flow of semen when you cum so youâve got to have your timing right. Clear communication is essential. Sounding also lends itself to âboundâ situations where the bound person is helpless to prevent this invasion of his body. The partners definitely need some experience with sounding each other prior to doing this.
TO BE CONTINUED . . .
Sex toys : Dildos, Vibrators, Pumps, Fuck Machines, Electro Stim, Penis and Anal Plugs
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