Being friends on xhamster

To all my sexy, beautiful female and hard, hung guy friends do on this site,
Allow me to first say that I've had a profile on this site on and off for about 5 years. The videos are hot and the people that have profiles are even hotter. I've messaged, chatted, and even Skyped with a couple of people from here and it's fun. But the thing that I don't understand is out of all the friends I have on this site, only a few reply back to my messages. I would consider myself to be a nice guy and can get along with almost anyone. I'm the kind of guy that looks out for his friends. You having a bad day, tell me about it. Maybe I can help and cheer you up. I don't want to be a number on someone's profile. You have over 4000 friends on your profile? Great. But do you talk to them? I know that people have lives to live, but if you're on here, at least have the courtesy to respond. Basically all I'm saying is if we are gonna be friends on here, then let's talk, have fun, and see where things go. If not, please unfriend me and good luck to you in your sexual escapades. I hope that I don't sound like a prick, but it's just something that's on my mind. Thank you for allowing me to vent and have a good day.
Andy