Men: How to convince your woman to fuck you with a
This post is a work in progress. OK. This question comes up all the time. How do I convince my wife/girlfriend to try strapon sex. Well, the answer is very simple. You don't. Period. Unless you are a manipulative, self-centered asshole who likes to control your partner's behaviour. If so, you could just tell her to do it. No need to 'convince her'. So now I express my opinions.
I see profiles on this site where people make remarks to the effect that they can only take photos or make videos when their partner is away. Thats sad. Your partner and yourself should be as one person. No secrets. Now I am not saying it is in your best interests to confess all of your sins to your partner at this moment. Think long & hard on that one. What I am saying is you should have no sins to confess. Your partner should already know.
We all have to play roles. We have to meet a certain standard at work, with the k**s, any public role. When you are at home and its just the two of you, the gloves should come off. No facade, no BS. Honesty & intamacy. That is your real life. Do you want to fake it ? Death is in your future. Do you want to make the most of the time you have or do you want to play a character in a movie that no-one is watching ?
So men, you have some secrets you would rather not share with your wife/GF ? But she is innocent of any sins, right ? Straight out of the convent ? I don't think so. Humans are humans, regardless of gender. We all have skeletons in our closets. Accept it. The point is you are not as freaky as you think you are. Relax & communicate.
Lets deal with the mechanics of the situation. She will be afraid of injuring you. Rip your intestines open & you will get peritonitis, & then you die. Well thats not going to happen. Use lots of lube & take your time & everything will be OK. Keep the lube handy. Like a 5 gallon bucket would be good. And unless you enamize first then there may be 'debris' so to speak. Just keep a few washcloths handy. Cleanup is quick & then you can go to town.
In conclusion, If your mission is to 'convince' your partner to use a strapon or do whatever then you are not getting it. You mission should be to develop a relationship with a fellow human where you can discuss anything and express your desires without expecting judgement. Be prepared to reciprocate. Your partner's needs & desires should be a priority that comes first. Once you acheive that, everything falls into place. No 'convincing' is needed. Best wishes to all & be good to each-other
OK, first draft, I will rewrite this several times. Comments are welcome.
I see profiles on this site where people make remarks to the effect that they can only take photos or make videos when their partner is away. Thats sad. Your partner and yourself should be as one person. No secrets. Now I am not saying it is in your best interests to confess all of your sins to your partner at this moment. Think long & hard on that one. What I am saying is you should have no sins to confess. Your partner should already know.
We all have to play roles. We have to meet a certain standard at work, with the k**s, any public role. When you are at home and its just the two of you, the gloves should come off. No facade, no BS. Honesty & intamacy. That is your real life. Do you want to fake it ? Death is in your future. Do you want to make the most of the time you have or do you want to play a character in a movie that no-one is watching ?
So men, you have some secrets you would rather not share with your wife/GF ? But she is innocent of any sins, right ? Straight out of the convent ? I don't think so. Humans are humans, regardless of gender. We all have skeletons in our closets. Accept it. The point is you are not as freaky as you think you are. Relax & communicate.
Lets deal with the mechanics of the situation. She will be afraid of injuring you. Rip your intestines open & you will get peritonitis, & then you die. Well thats not going to happen. Use lots of lube & take your time & everything will be OK. Keep the lube handy. Like a 5 gallon bucket would be good. And unless you enamize first then there may be 'debris' so to speak. Just keep a few washcloths handy. Cleanup is quick & then you can go to town.
In conclusion, If your mission is to 'convince' your partner to use a strapon or do whatever then you are not getting it. You mission should be to develop a relationship with a fellow human where you can discuss anything and express your desires without expecting judgement. Be prepared to reciprocate. Your partner's needs & desires should be a priority that comes first. Once you acheive that, everything falls into place. No 'convincing' is needed. Best wishes to all & be good to each-other
OK, first draft, I will rewrite this several times. Comments are welcome.
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