Most Men Are Awesome

Most men are awesome.

Perhaps my writing doesn't reflect that. Occasionally I've been pissed off by a man enough to make me say some pretty mean stuff. It's true; I've had some really shitty interactions with some men here on Xhamster (as well as some pretty horrific ones in real life). But that doesn't change the fact that I love men. I absolutely adore men.

There's been a trend growing in American culture, as well as the internet, that ridicules, ostracizes, and abuses men. I don't support that trend.

I have read articles that accuse all men of being part of **** culture. That all men are inherently r*pists, and that all men are abusers. I have seen comments made by my fellow women that were absolutely atrocious. Women calling all men stupid, or that they only think with their dicks. That all men objectify women. But this isn't true.

Most men, nearly all men, are really wonderful and decent people. I would wager that the horrible men are less than 1% of 1% of the male population. Probably even way less than that.

Like many other women, I have been the victim of a sexual assault. But, unlike many of my peers in this, I refuse to look at other men like potential predators. I still see men in a positive light.

I'll always poke fun at the penis-picture men who send me messages asking me if I like their cock, or if I want to fuck. That's just my nature. But I don't want to perpetuate the idea that men are bad, stupid, horrible, oppressive, barbaric, or cruel. I could argue that, in my own personal life experience, I have been subjected to much more frequent cruelty from other women than I have from men.

Women are quicker to judge me based on my weight than men are. Women are more likely to harass me than men are. Women are less likely to give me physical, mental, or emotional support than men are.

Saying all that, I am still a staunch liberal feminist (please don't confuse this with a third-wave feminist. google it, if you're confused). But I am also a supporter of Men's Rights, and a lover of men in general.

To all the good men out there who take the time to read my writing (and even those who don't); thank you for being you. Whether you're old-school macho masculine, or new-school soft and sentimental, I think you're great just the way you are. Live your life the way you choose, and continue on the beautiful paths you're on. I, like so many other true blue women out here, appreciate you for who and what you are. Women like us will never hold you to a double-standard. Women like us aren't afraid to lift you up when you're feeling weak, or hold you when you're feeling sad. We love it when you support us, but we also love supporting you. Together, men and women make a great team. We compliment each others' strengths and weaknesses.

Whenever you see some heinous bitch legitimately being mean to you, rambling about the patriarchy, or misogyny, or your "male entitlement", just come back and re-read all this. Then ignore that ignorant cunt.