Swinger vs Cuckold

My wife thought when she first started this page that I wouldn't find out. But I did. Now the conversation started. What do you want? What do you desire? We've always known that there is a difference between love and sex! Both of us have desired watching the other with someone else. And in the past, have had those times. But now we find ourselves asking ourselves the question: Are we swingers or are we a cuckold couple? She loves watching me with other women and has offered me to her friends "in need". I have watched her with some of our friends but have always reserved offering her to friends and/or strangers to her desires. So when it comes to the "are we swingers or cuckold couple" I find myself asking the question because most of the cuck stuff out there is demeaning to the man because of his inability to satisfy the woman. I'd like to think with an 8in' cock, making her cum 2-3 times every time we have sex, her squirting occasionally, that we don't fit the cuck side. But I love watching here take a much larger cock than mine and fantasize about her getting creampied by anyone. And the swinger stuff out there is both people just having fun, but with people that are either "curious" or "HARD" core and would not really become a reality in our life.My wife has become self conscious about here appearance as of late, as sexy as she is; so I have to ask my xhamster.com friends: "what" is a couple when they love each other, wants to watch each other with someone else, and is not worried about "cheating" because we both know at the end of the day, we both come home to each other, after the chance encounter with someone else.......