How To Suck a Penis (the right way)

How To Suck a Penis (the right way)
by jack-cum's Blog (no address provided)

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A dissertation on the proper way to perform Oral sex.
(oral)

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The sad fact is that most people, men and women, do not
have the slightest idea of how to suck a penis. Most
seem to think that simply by making a cunt of their
mouth, closing it around a man's penis, and bobbing
their heads lustily up and down until he climaxes
automatically makes them an expert. Au contraire!

Consummate skill is required to suck a man and provide
him with the highest degree of pleasure possible. When a
woman first starts her quest she usually has no one to
turn to for advice and counsel. It was all hunt and
suck. Hunt and suck. Find that one technique that could
and would set him on fire! Also some men are more
stimulated by oral sex than others. For most men it is
very stimulating but for others its not.

In order for you to observe your man's reactions and get
the most information possible about his responses, try
the following:

While his erect penis points toward the ceiling, cup his
balls in one hand and gently, using only your tongue,
lick softly, but carefully along the entire underside of
his erect organ. As you suck along the underbelly you
will learn those areas that give him the greatest
pleasure when your tongue is touching them. Unless he is
made of stone, your partner will provide you with vivid
clues as to which areas are most pleasurable.

As you discover these areas of enhanced pleasure,
concentrate on them. For most men the most sensitive
area will be the point where the ring (or corona) of the
head and the foreskin are attached. Or were attached
prior to his circumcision. By continued licking and
tapping along this area with your tongue you may bring
forth a geyser.

If you are not skilled and you want to please him in a
hurry I suggest that you get him off in this manner in
order to become familiar at first hand with the nature
and delight of his climax.

As he is getting ready for climax you will note changes
in his penis. These signs will be the same every time he
climaxes so that you can prepare for his cum properly.
The head of the penis may swell somewhat larger then it
is during the normal course of his erection.

He may thrust his hips forward as he wants to send his
body hurtling out his penis with his cum. And for most
men, immediately prior to the cum, there will appear at
the tiny, lovely lips at the tip of the penis a clear
drop or two of fluid. When you see this or feel the
opening at the meateus through his condom you know that
the moment of truth is at hand. Launch the torpedoes,
full cum ahead!

Where should you be when you are sucking his penis?
Between his legs, on top of him, in a sixty nine
position? Where? Because of the structure of his penis,
as well as the structure of your mouth, lips, tongue,
and teeth, you can provide the highest degree of
sensation to yourself and your partner by kneeling
between his legs and approaching his penis from the
bottom rather than from the side or the top.

Place his stiff penis inside your mouth but do not
tighten your lips around the shaft. With your head begin
a circle motion. The penis will slide to different
places in your mouth as you continue the circle motion.
Watch your teeth on this one. A kneeling position will
suffice but it is also effective when your partner is on
his back and your head is directly over his penis. The
circle should be executed in both clockwise and
counterclockwise motions in a slow, purposeful manner.

With your man sitting in an elevated position and you on
your knees in front of him lift his hard penis to reveal
his balls. With your tongue find the underside of his
balls. Now, while resting his balls on your wet tongue,
lick in an upward motion to the very tip of his penis.
It is permissible to use your hands in this technique.
It is better to do this technique several times in
succession-like licking a lollipop or ice cream cone.

Right now let's discuss a technique that is probably the
most common penis-sucking technique in the world. Take
his penis in your mouth but not deeply. We will get to
deep-throating later on. It's great, not over-rated, but
if you want to be an expert at deep throat, start with
the right techniques and work your way down, so to
speak.

Take his penis in your mouth by sliding your moistened
tongue lovingly over the head until your lips close
around the shaft at the point just behind the corona.
Don't just open your mouth and close it around his
penis. Slide it in. He will enjoy it much more. Encase
the shaft of his penis with your hand. Remember the
shaft is relatively insensitive to any kind of
stimulation. By enclosing his penis with your hand you
give him the sensation of having his penis encased.

Now you have several options. Try twisting your head
from side to side making sure your moist lips stay in
contact with the coronal ridge. While doing this gently
move your hand up and down the shaft. When he climaxes
he may want to push your head further down the shaft of
his penis. He wants to envelop you with his penis.

As you are learning his climax, you will miss the fine
points if you deep throat at this time. Instead gently
suck around the corona as he climaxes so that you can
intensify his pleasure and increase the force of his
orgasm. As you gain more experience you will be able to
tell exactly when his climax is approaching.

There is one further refinement to this basic technique,
which will heighten his orgasm. If you place your thumb
at the very base of the penis in such a way as to block
the tube through which the cum spurts, the semen cannot
escape even though he is spasming and going through the
reflex action of ejaculating semen.

If at the same time you suck vigorously on the head of
his penis you can delay his cum for several long
moments. When you finally allow the cum to spurt it will
last much longer and be just as intense as a result.
Even though you delay the cum for only a few short
moments, you will be surprised by the intensity of his
cum.

These techniques are the basis of penis-sucking. Do not
go beyond them until you have become an expert, not only
in the techniques themselves, but also in the reading
and interpreting of your partner's responses to such a
point that you know exactly how he is getting off on
what you are doing. When you have reached this point,
you are ready for the more subtle, more advanced
techniques.

Don't be so slavish that you miss out on the fun of self
discovery. Find out what works for you and for your
partner and make your penis-sucking as individual as
your signature. After all, you want your man to pick you
out in the dark among a hundred slobbering penis-
suckers.

One of the first things you encountered when you first
started to suck penis was a gag reflex. Most men seem to
want to force their penis down your throat as far as
they can get it. Particularly at the moment when they
cum!

Consider for a moment that the average length of your
oral cavity is three to three and a half inches while
the average Caucasian penis length is five to five and a
half inches. The laws of nature would seem to dictate
that getting all that penis into your mouth is an
impossibility.

It can be done. If you understand your anatomy you will
begin to understand the requirements that allow you to
take his hard penis into your mouth and down your
throat. The biggest obstacle to taking all of his penis
down your throat is the fact that there is a bend of
almost ninety degrees behind your tongue leading down
into your throat. So the first thing to do is get the
penis past that angle.

Get past the angle of the dangle!

In order to practice this, get in a position where you
can turn your head in such a way that your mouth and
throat lie almost in a straight line. The best position
to accomplish this is to lie on a bed so that your head
is near the edge with your body sprawled across the bed
so that your head is tipped sharply back. This position
will put your mouth and throat nearly in a line and will
allow your partner to approach you in such a way that
insertion of his penis can be made so deeply that his
pubic hair presses against your lips.

The natural tendency of the body is to gag when a
foreign object such as a deeply thrusting penis is being
forced down your throat. You can overcome this tendency
by completely relaxing your throat at the moment the
insertion is made. It is equally important that you
maintain this relaxation during the entire deep-
throating.

Let him put his penis down your throat and hold it still
while you find the most comfortable way to proceed.
Because of your position you will not be able to move or
to offer him any greater stimulation than simply keeping
your mouth tightly closed around his throbbing penis. If
you are able try, to stimulate his underbelly with your
tongue.

You will only be able to relax and take his penis in
this way if you completely trust your partner. Your
partner is in full control. He must initiate and
maintain all the motion. This is the only exercise in
which you relinquish your control of the situation to
your partner. He will relish this for the simple fact
that for the first time he can insert his penis as
deeply down your throat as he wants to.

Now your partner begins an in and out movement that is
just like fucking. He should start slowly, especially if
this is a completely new experience for the two of you.
After all, if he hurts you he cuts himself off from one
of the great pleasures in life. His only other
requirement during this exercise is to keep the motion
in the same direction throughout this oral exercise, as
there is simply no leeway for him to vary the motion
from side to side.

One other word of caution. Don't let your partner get
carried away at the moment he starts to cum. At that
spectacular moment he will be able for the first time to
thrust his penis all the way inside your oral cavity and
that is the most important lesson of this exercise!

His only other requirement during the exercise is to
keep the motion in the same direction against your lips
as he cums. Because of your position in bed you will not
be faced with the problem of swallowing his cum. The
reason is because he has gotten his penis BEYOND your
gag reflex!

Without a condom his cum will shoot directly into your
stomach! If both you and your partner understand what it
is that you are trying to do, as well as the possible
problems that may "cum" up along the way, no harm or
discomfort will happen to either of you.

jack--