Curiosity...

I have a bad habit of asking people about their orgasms. “Oh really? you had a fling last weekend? How did that feel in your body? Can you describe it to me in an email? – most people (men and women) are game! Sometimes I get awkward glares. Frankly, I’m surprised I haven’t been slapped yet. But, hey, it’s always worth the risk. Recently a friend was describing a particularly amazing tryst and went into full detail about the physical impact, the vibration, the rush, that extended from the bottoms of her feet to the ends of her hair follicles. She is a natural full-body orgasmer. Everyone applaud for her… yaaay! Don’t be jealous, because you are completely capable of feeling the same thing. But for some women, especially for those who have spent years focusing during their orgasmic episodes on their partner, the internal vibration fizzles out just beyond the groin. To be clear – a full body orgasm is the experience of feeling your whole body vibrating with energy. The way it feels around your clitoris is NOT the way it feels around your face and deep within the crevices of your armpits. It changes as the vibration travels. It can feel like water rushing, or a pinpoint tingling sensation or cool air flowing. It’s never the same for two different people. And it can change for you every time you experience it. Isn’t it great to be a women? Seriously. It’s not usually a porny thing either, it’s often not a earth shattering feeling, scream sesh. When we have longer orgasms they can be more subtle. You might feel warm, calm and sleepy vibrations. And of course, sometimes it definitely can be earth shattering! Keep that option open at least. Don’t worry, making the full body orgasm work for you just takes a little bit of practice. So get out your to-do lists because this is the best must-do assignment you’re going to get all week.