But, but....it smells
I read the greatest writing today ever. I only wish I would have seen it, or say 30 years ago!!
I found it on a fetish site that I also belong to and the title was "Yes girls, your Vag smells." It went on to say that it was ok, because it is suppose to smell, it has its own odor just like the rest of your body, and your man probably loves your specific scent best.
All my life I have been worried about the odor that I produced. Yep, I was a product of that generation that saw all the FDS and Vagasil and I can't even remember what all else commercials, but there were at least three or four brands of Feminine Deodorant Sprays on the market at that time. If you walk in a store now, that has changed, thank heavens - but back in the 70's this was a big money industry, and as a girl coming into puberty the fear was built in.
Needless to say this fear had always hampered my ability to enjoy receiving oral sex, now I loved giving it. And let me tell you have guys have their own unique smell, its a mix of sweat and sex and whatever material they are wearing against their skin, some mixes are better than others, and then again it is personal preference. Another issue that played into this fear at this time in my life as a teenager in high school and college - we all know how boys can be boys, and hearing the boys talk about a girl that I knew, and them saying that you need a clothes pin if you "went down" on her because she smelled like "day old fish" was probably more terrifying. I never wanted to be talked about in the locker room, or wherever else they talked about girls.
Granted all of this was also all occurring during the time when I was trying so hard to deny that I had any fetish dreams and trying to fit into the whitebread world of the area I was living in. Another thing that was perfectly normal in that world was a full, bush - never trimmed. I mean that kind of stuff was not talked about at all.
So, when I left my bad marriage and decided that it was time to quit denying and open myself to the fetishes I had harbored deep down inside all these years, hidden and kept from the light, one of the first things I did was go get a full Brazilian wax! Let me just say right here and now, that was the best thing I ever did for my own confidence!! All the sudden, I had this clean, smooth puss and after a shower I felt clean and I noticed that even to myself, I felt like I smelled clean. Getting rid of all that hair got rid of all my fears about my smells. It was strange, but it did, and now I keep it that way because I like it and I want it that way.
Now that I felt better about it - it became so much easier to enjoy oral sex, oh man, look at what I was missing all those years not relaxing and enjoying it before!! Now I could embrace it and have a good time, and let it go. I am so much more comfortable with anyone touching it and saying anything about it now. Granted I know that there are still some men out there that haven't grown up and might still act like boys and make some kind of obnoxious comment, but at this point in my life, I am strong enough to stand up for myself and walk away from them. I don't need a boy in my life. I need a real man.
I found it on a fetish site that I also belong to and the title was "Yes girls, your Vag smells." It went on to say that it was ok, because it is suppose to smell, it has its own odor just like the rest of your body, and your man probably loves your specific scent best.
All my life I have been worried about the odor that I produced. Yep, I was a product of that generation that saw all the FDS and Vagasil and I can't even remember what all else commercials, but there were at least three or four brands of Feminine Deodorant Sprays on the market at that time. If you walk in a store now, that has changed, thank heavens - but back in the 70's this was a big money industry, and as a girl coming into puberty the fear was built in.
Needless to say this fear had always hampered my ability to enjoy receiving oral sex, now I loved giving it. And let me tell you have guys have their own unique smell, its a mix of sweat and sex and whatever material they are wearing against their skin, some mixes are better than others, and then again it is personal preference. Another issue that played into this fear at this time in my life as a teenager in high school and college - we all know how boys can be boys, and hearing the boys talk about a girl that I knew, and them saying that you need a clothes pin if you "went down" on her because she smelled like "day old fish" was probably more terrifying. I never wanted to be talked about in the locker room, or wherever else they talked about girls.
Granted all of this was also all occurring during the time when I was trying so hard to deny that I had any fetish dreams and trying to fit into the whitebread world of the area I was living in. Another thing that was perfectly normal in that world was a full, bush - never trimmed. I mean that kind of stuff was not talked about at all.
So, when I left my bad marriage and decided that it was time to quit denying and open myself to the fetishes I had harbored deep down inside all these years, hidden and kept from the light, one of the first things I did was go get a full Brazilian wax! Let me just say right here and now, that was the best thing I ever did for my own confidence!! All the sudden, I had this clean, smooth puss and after a shower I felt clean and I noticed that even to myself, I felt like I smelled clean. Getting rid of all that hair got rid of all my fears about my smells. It was strange, but it did, and now I keep it that way because I like it and I want it that way.
Now that I felt better about it - it became so much easier to enjoy oral sex, oh man, look at what I was missing all those years not relaxing and enjoying it before!! Now I could embrace it and have a good time, and let it go. I am so much more comfortable with anyone touching it and saying anything about it now. Granted I know that there are still some men out there that haven't grown up and might still act like boys and make some kind of obnoxious comment, but at this point in my life, I am strong enough to stand up for myself and walk away from them. I don't need a boy in my life. I need a real man.
10 years ago