Younger men, they make better lovers?
Recently I have had a number of people as me why younger guys? After answering this same question a couple of different times, I thought, you know, it would be a whole lot easier to write out my answer one time, and then refer everyone to that said answer!
So why do I like younger guys?
I think one of the first reasons that I like younger guys is that they were raised just a little bit differently. Not much, but just enough to allow them to be ok with a woman telling them that they don't like it when you lick across but do like when you lick up and down. Older men tend to bulk at suggestions, especially in bed. Now I am not saying this is true for all younger men or all older men, there are always exceptions to every case. But from all the men that I have know as lovers, friends and colleagues, I have just found this general rule to be true. NOW, having said that, it doesn't mean that if you are an older guy I am automatically going to reject you, that is not the case, nor if you are the same age as me, because I still firmly hold to the believe that each person is really a case by case study. This just means that no two people of any age are exactly the same.
The second reason that I like younger guys is another generalization, and does not always mean every younger guy is this way, or every older guy is not, again I believe in a case-by-case study approach, In my life I have just found that younger men tend to be more attentive. They focus their attention on you, they do things to make sure you know that you have their attention and they let you know more that they are thinking of you! From the simplest things like a text in the middle of the work day that says I'm thinking of you, to flowers for no reason other than it is Wednesday, I just seem to find that younger men are better at doing these things than older men.
A third reason is another generalization, and please don't yell at me over this one. You may not have encountered it, but I have! Older men are looking for arm candy, a trophy to show off to show other older men that they still have it, that they are good enough to snag a hot young something. I am not arm candy. I am not a trophy. I never want to be any of those things. I want to be with you because you care for me, not because I am good for your ego and with the other guys in the club. Younger guys don't seem to have that same standards. There are some that feel the need to prove that they can get the hottest girls out there, and they are probably the ones that grow up to be those older men. Most are more concerned with the person, and having an older woman is not a bad thing these days.
Let's just cut to the main attraction, when it comes to sex, younger men just seem to have more going on than older men!! I don't know if it is all the hormones in milk nowdays or what, but I swear these younger men are built twice as big as the older men!! Yes, go ahead, tell me I'm wrong, tell me your older and built better. That's fine, I won't argue. I am just giving you my guidelines on why I join the groups for younger men, This is the general rule of thumb, So I go where I can find the most of these types. If you are one of these types and happen to be older, no problem, again I favor the case-by-case approach.
Now that I have made my first big decision to look for younger men, what is the next big decision I need to make?
So why do I like younger guys?
I think one of the first reasons that I like younger guys is that they were raised just a little bit differently. Not much, but just enough to allow them to be ok with a woman telling them that they don't like it when you lick across but do like when you lick up and down. Older men tend to bulk at suggestions, especially in bed. Now I am not saying this is true for all younger men or all older men, there are always exceptions to every case. But from all the men that I have know as lovers, friends and colleagues, I have just found this general rule to be true. NOW, having said that, it doesn't mean that if you are an older guy I am automatically going to reject you, that is not the case, nor if you are the same age as me, because I still firmly hold to the believe that each person is really a case by case study. This just means that no two people of any age are exactly the same.
The second reason that I like younger guys is another generalization, and does not always mean every younger guy is this way, or every older guy is not, again I believe in a case-by-case study approach, In my life I have just found that younger men tend to be more attentive. They focus their attention on you, they do things to make sure you know that you have their attention and they let you know more that they are thinking of you! From the simplest things like a text in the middle of the work day that says I'm thinking of you, to flowers for no reason other than it is Wednesday, I just seem to find that younger men are better at doing these things than older men.
A third reason is another generalization, and please don't yell at me over this one. You may not have encountered it, but I have! Older men are looking for arm candy, a trophy to show off to show other older men that they still have it, that they are good enough to snag a hot young something. I am not arm candy. I am not a trophy. I never want to be any of those things. I want to be with you because you care for me, not because I am good for your ego and with the other guys in the club. Younger guys don't seem to have that same standards. There are some that feel the need to prove that they can get the hottest girls out there, and they are probably the ones that grow up to be those older men. Most are more concerned with the person, and having an older woman is not a bad thing these days.
Let's just cut to the main attraction, when it comes to sex, younger men just seem to have more going on than older men!! I don't know if it is all the hormones in milk nowdays or what, but I swear these younger men are built twice as big as the older men!! Yes, go ahead, tell me I'm wrong, tell me your older and built better. That's fine, I won't argue. I am just giving you my guidelines on why I join the groups for younger men, This is the general rule of thumb, So I go where I can find the most of these types. If you are one of these types and happen to be older, no problem, again I favor the case-by-case approach.
Now that I have made my first big decision to look for younger men, what is the next big decision I need to make?
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