Big Tits
A questions was asked in a group, Are big tits a blessing or a curse? and I thought or that will be a quick reply, but as I started typing I realized that the answer was anything but quick.
By the time I was in high school I was already a DD, and it was all they guys noticed. Of course for some reason in high school, big tits meant that you were easy to the guys! Not sure where that myth came from but I fought it my whole high school career.
At this point in my life, I measure a cup size I which is huge, and noticeable. I have trouble finding bras to fit, shirts or any other clothing. The worst part is that I try to be active in my c***dren's school and if I wear anything that is the least bit tight across the bust, I hear the comments about me being slutty or wanting attention or trying to be a home wrecker. Nothing could be farther from the truth. The reality is that it is hard to dress them!
Now when it comes to sex though, they are a big bonus. They are so erotic to a number of guys, and that makes adventures with them that much more fun. I love them for that, and using them with a partner for pleasure.
Slowly I am coming to terms with them and not letting the opinion of others matter as much to me, not being effected by the comments and only giving in to the feeling I have for myself.
So to answer the original question, are big tits a blessing or a curse? Well, truth be told they are both. There are times when they are going to be a curse, but just as many times when they are going to be a blessing. The goal is to learn to balance the blessing vs curse in your own mind and life to a point where you feel good about yourself!
By the time I was in high school I was already a DD, and it was all they guys noticed. Of course for some reason in high school, big tits meant that you were easy to the guys! Not sure where that myth came from but I fought it my whole high school career.
At this point in my life, I measure a cup size I which is huge, and noticeable. I have trouble finding bras to fit, shirts or any other clothing. The worst part is that I try to be active in my c***dren's school and if I wear anything that is the least bit tight across the bust, I hear the comments about me being slutty or wanting attention or trying to be a home wrecker. Nothing could be farther from the truth. The reality is that it is hard to dress them!
Now when it comes to sex though, they are a big bonus. They are so erotic to a number of guys, and that makes adventures with them that much more fun. I love them for that, and using them with a partner for pleasure.
Slowly I am coming to terms with them and not letting the opinion of others matter as much to me, not being effected by the comments and only giving in to the feeling I have for myself.
So to answer the original question, are big tits a blessing or a curse? Well, truth be told they are both. There are times when they are going to be a curse, but just as many times when they are going to be a blessing. The goal is to learn to balance the blessing vs curse in your own mind and life to a point where you feel good about yourself!
10 years ago