Don't label my relationship
I have no idea what I am, which probably makes looking for my match that much harder. But at this point I have figured out a few things. I DONT like labels, I am me and I don't fit under just one, and I don't move back and forth from one to another, I am in two at the same time.
Daddy...
Ok this was a new idea to me, and I have learned more about it, and I am not sure that a true traditional daddy/babygirl relationship would work for me, but the daddy/babygirl relationship I found myself in worked for us. I was older, he was younger which is the way we both like it and is not traditional daddy/babygirl relationships. The thing was I was wounded from my destructive marriage, and finding him was the best thing for me. He made me feel beautiful with his words, he showered me with attention and effection, spoiled me with compliments and praise. It was everything I could want and was exactly what I needed to heal after my marriage.
Dom....
I don't mind submitting to someone sometimes, but I don't want to do it all the time, and a true dom is not going to give up their control anytime. There are times I want to let someone else call the shots an take control of everything and they can make it all they want.
Sub....
Most of the time I am happy being taken care of by someone, but every now and again I want to take control and I want to lead the games and I want to tell you what is going to happen and when and where. And maybe it is not that I am actually willing to give up full control but enough of it that you feel in control, even though I am still directing things without you realizing it.
I don't like labels, I don't think they fit my and I don't know what I want..actually I do know what I want.
What I want is a guy who can::
*spoil me with words and deeds like a Daddy
*take care of me and make me feel better like a Daddy
*take control and take the lead on sex like a Dom
*give up control and let me lead like a Sub
*a guy close to my age or younger
must be taller than me and strong
Now, if anyone can give me a label for that, thank you!!
Daddy...
Ok this was a new idea to me, and I have learned more about it, and I am not sure that a true traditional daddy/babygirl relationship would work for me, but the daddy/babygirl relationship I found myself in worked for us. I was older, he was younger which is the way we both like it and is not traditional daddy/babygirl relationships. The thing was I was wounded from my destructive marriage, and finding him was the best thing for me. He made me feel beautiful with his words, he showered me with attention and effection, spoiled me with compliments and praise. It was everything I could want and was exactly what I needed to heal after my marriage.
Dom....
I don't mind submitting to someone sometimes, but I don't want to do it all the time, and a true dom is not going to give up their control anytime. There are times I want to let someone else call the shots an take control of everything and they can make it all they want.
Sub....
Most of the time I am happy being taken care of by someone, but every now and again I want to take control and I want to lead the games and I want to tell you what is going to happen and when and where. And maybe it is not that I am actually willing to give up full control but enough of it that you feel in control, even though I am still directing things without you realizing it.
I don't like labels, I don't think they fit my and I don't know what I want..actually I do know what I want.
What I want is a guy who can::
*spoil me with words and deeds like a Daddy
*take care of me and make me feel better like a Daddy
*take control and take the lead on sex like a Dom
*give up control and let me lead like a Sub
*a guy close to my age or younger
must be taller than me and strong
Now, if anyone can give me a label for that, thank you!!
10 years ago
