Strippers You Meet: The Possessor
I used to be a strip club "regular." Then I became a strip club social media coordinator. Then I found more productive things to do. I did learn a lot from my time engulfed in the adult nightlife, and one of those things is the types of strippers you are bound to run into at a club. Today, let's discuss "The Possessor."
This is why you can't come across too interesting, or intelligent, or nice with a stripper. Once you buy a stripper drinks, tip them for their time, and offer great conversation, there is a chance they are going to become possessive of you as their customer. No other girl is allowed to give you a lapdance. No other girl is allowed to spend significant time conversing with you. And above anything else, no other girl is going to do a VIP with you.
The possessor will try to take up all of your time the minute she realizes you are in the club. It doesn't even matter if you are talking to another girl or just chilling with friends. She will insert herself in the picture. If you are talking with another girl, she will passively act hurt and make you feel bad. If you are with friends, she will simply sit down like she is a part of the crew.
Here's some advice: She will only become "the possessor" for two reasons. One, you might have spent a lot of money on her. From a business perspective, she won't let you go because there is always the chance she can earn more income off of you. Or two, your conversation with her might have been too good. This is the category I usually fell in. I would typically tip her no more than $20 and buy her a drink, yet our talk was good enough that she would always seek me out.
If you fall in the latter, it isn't too bad. She will eventually leave to make some money for the night. If you fall in the former, then I pray for you. She will never leave you alone unless someone else is already spending money on her. If you really don't want to deal with this chick, you have three options:
1. Go to another club. There are plenty of clubs out there with good looking dancers. You made a mistake at one club. Just don't repeat it at another.
2. Show up on her off days. This will require you to know the days she doesn't work. If she is already possessive of you, you can just ask her with no issues.
3. Let her know you aren't interested. It's cold, but after enough times she will get the point. But understand, you are killing whatever partnership you two have.
Like I said, a possessor due to great conversation isn't bad. Besides, if the talk was that good, you are probably digging her a bit anyway. On the other hand, a possessor due to money is rough to deal with and you need to handle it ASAP before you find yourself being pressured into spending more money than you care for.
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This is why you can't come across too interesting, or intelligent, or nice with a stripper. Once you buy a stripper drinks, tip them for their time, and offer great conversation, there is a chance they are going to become possessive of you as their customer. No other girl is allowed to give you a lapdance. No other girl is allowed to spend significant time conversing with you. And above anything else, no other girl is going to do a VIP with you.
The possessor will try to take up all of your time the minute she realizes you are in the club. It doesn't even matter if you are talking to another girl or just chilling with friends. She will insert herself in the picture. If you are talking with another girl, she will passively act hurt and make you feel bad. If you are with friends, she will simply sit down like she is a part of the crew.
Here's some advice: She will only become "the possessor" for two reasons. One, you might have spent a lot of money on her. From a business perspective, she won't let you go because there is always the chance she can earn more income off of you. Or two, your conversation with her might have been too good. This is the category I usually fell in. I would typically tip her no more than $20 and buy her a drink, yet our talk was good enough that she would always seek me out.
If you fall in the latter, it isn't too bad. She will eventually leave to make some money for the night. If you fall in the former, then I pray for you. She will never leave you alone unless someone else is already spending money on her. If you really don't want to deal with this chick, you have three options:
1. Go to another club. There are plenty of clubs out there with good looking dancers. You made a mistake at one club. Just don't repeat it at another.
2. Show up on her off days. This will require you to know the days she doesn't work. If she is already possessive of you, you can just ask her with no issues.
3. Let her know you aren't interested. It's cold, but after enough times she will get the point. But understand, you are killing whatever partnership you two have.
Like I said, a possessor due to great conversation isn't bad. Besides, if the talk was that good, you are probably digging her a bit anyway. On the other hand, a possessor due to money is rough to deal with and you need to handle it ASAP before you find yourself being pressured into spending more money than you care for.
Please follow me on Twitter at @Meninity. It's fun for all.
10 years ago