The theological answer is that a human being isn't conceived until a spermatazoa penetrates the female ovum. So you are merely a pervert, only a misdemenor, but you are still going to hell. Ecclesial law is harsher than civil law especially if you have alot of money and a good lawer.
AHAHAHAHAHAHA ... thats a good one...if you get it in the mouth by blowing a guy then it is. since you already started canibalism from sucking a cock.. if you thrust it between your legs.. well its more like cooked sperm.. so it doesnt count anyomore