For the Question of 'WHY' ?
In all of my time around I have met several people that have become Very Good True Friends with and have met several that are only Acquaintances.
I am sure All here know the difference of these.
I feel in a True Friendship with each is helping one another whenever possible. Without asking anythings in return. Unless offered.
With a True Friendship as this it would not one sided where one will Continue asking for somethings when the other Can Not provide what ask for.
In a circumstance such as this one can consider themselves to be a Pawn for a game the other is playing them for and Perhaps others that have not seen this Yet.
In this circumstance it is found their are multiple players that was not revealed in the start.
As this progresses the others are revealed by chance with the nature of the conversations change in many forms from one time to the next. In turn not knowing whom you are really in touch with.
In my minds Eye deciding to call an end to the game the other is outraged as to the stopping further help and can not understand Why I have decided to do this.
I feel in truth they know I have seen into the plan for there Game.
The Reason and Details for this is in Secret between them and myself as I Promised.
I Will Keep this Promise to them.
Plus not showing how I have made a Large Mistake in choosing such a person for the True Friend again.
As I have Quoted once before and Ignored this time:
"Fool Me Once Shame on Me" -- "Fool Me Twice Shame on You".
Any and all comments welcome.
Louis
I am sure All here know the difference of these.
I feel in a True Friendship with each is helping one another whenever possible. Without asking anythings in return. Unless offered.
With a True Friendship as this it would not one sided where one will Continue asking for somethings when the other Can Not provide what ask for.
In a circumstance such as this one can consider themselves to be a Pawn for a game the other is playing them for and Perhaps others that have not seen this Yet.
In this circumstance it is found their are multiple players that was not revealed in the start.
As this progresses the others are revealed by chance with the nature of the conversations change in many forms from one time to the next. In turn not knowing whom you are really in touch with.
In my minds Eye deciding to call an end to the game the other is outraged as to the stopping further help and can not understand Why I have decided to do this.
I feel in truth they know I have seen into the plan for there Game.
The Reason and Details for this is in Secret between them and myself as I Promised.
I Will Keep this Promise to them.
Plus not showing how I have made a Large Mistake in choosing such a person for the True Friend again.
As I have Quoted once before and Ignored this time:
"Fool Me Once Shame on Me" -- "Fool Me Twice Shame on You".
Any and all comments welcome.
Louis
11 years ago
And just like in real life it takes time to become friends.You have to get to know people and learn about the little aspects of their life before you can connect.
So I think it takes time to develop a friendship,and yes ...it has to be a two way traffic.I often try to reach out to people who look promising and interesting,but find I'm the one who makes the effort.It mostly ends in a dead end street....and removal from my friends section.
Like you some people have become very dear to me.Those are the people I would love to visit in real life.Just have a chat over a cup of coffee(with some pie
Very well said, and the instance of many beginning, during and end "friendships" on here...
Thank you for putting it in words.
SassyBri ~
Louis, who have friends ( of true ) never is alone.