Basic essentials = Persona

Basic communication for a  person is simple, it can be from 
1) eye contact (guy checking out a girl at a bus stand)
2) body language (girl shrugging off the look the guy is giving her)
3) verbal (guy giving girl a comment about how she look)
4) physical (girl slapping the guy and pouring coffee down his pants)

But in the internet, contact usually comes in two forms
1) text
2) cams
It is more complex than it seems. One side would have no idea if the other person is as real as her "persona" if it is by text or word profile.
Example: John tries to chat to a girl by the name of "SexyCarlyHot33"
He would be out on a wing and prayer wheather the person hes talking to is really a girl named Carly, or if shes 33, or if shes really sexy and on fire (hot)

John should realize that "SexyCarly" is a persona. Something that the other user thinks she/he should be created by God as, but given a totally different package in real life.

Contact in the internet is more dodgy than the real world is. It can get hillariously funny, or outrageously horrific, or worse, both. 
Example:
John might die of a heart attack when he finds out "Carly" is actually "Tim" 63, grandfather of 11, with a tattoo of a butterfly on his butt.
It is a gamble for the newly internet guy or girl or whatever it is. 

Persona  is a confidence tool, made by it's user as a social interaction medium. It is the personification of it's user, an avatar with it's own attitude, look and thoughts.
Example:
A barely clad sexy warrior princess that posts beautiful half naked maidens with a huge collection of lesbian porn and sexy fantasy stories
Or
A handsome superbly muscled man that posts pictures of unicorns and buttercups to show his sensitive side with interest in movies like 'sleepless in Seattle' or other girly movies

That my friends, is a well seasoned Persona user. It can be the real deal though, like Tom Hanks in 'You got Mail' but mostly its the guy with the tatoo on his head in 'The Hangover'

It is an exciting time to explore this new form (relatively new) of medium, where thoughts alone attract others, and personalities are known first before physical meetings ever takes place.

But it can be frustrating for someone looking for a specific person in mind. A person can become jaded and bitter after a bad experince with a persona.
Example:
John shrugging off "Mary" who is in fact a real, 33yr old lady with beautiful soul after his experience with the hot "Carly".

Love them or hate them, Personas are here to stay. You might be a persona user, or already own several unicorn posting accounts, it can be fun for you, it might not to those you lie to.
Be responsible. Behind the words and pictures are other people.




Published by Nazru
12 years ago
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Nazru
Nazru Publisher 12 years ago
Its ok. Even I use Vendetta's mask for my avi. Duality is part of human nature. Some have multiplicity. Each have their own uniqueness and that makes personas fascinating. Reality is how we percieve it. I love the power of the human mind. That is why i wrote.
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filthym
agree with the whole persona thing but when it comes to the nitty gritty its a porn site ppl use to let of steam, frustrations, desires, and be what they cannot be in reality.
its an outlet for them to explore their 'darker side' whatever that may be and in whatever form they think suits them.
so sometimes they may come as a female or somthing but on the surface it seems kinda like they want more attention or crave something that they reality does not provide for them but on other hand it can be something they want to explore. some ppl just abuse it and are arseholes.
from a male who is happy to be a male in pornland and out :smile:
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_Stripe_
_Stripe_ 12 years ago
great blog ....yum yum :smile:
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xXxPoistxXx
Something every child should be taught in school before they are allowed on the internet :smile:

Perhaps social networks should have an oscar night, to award the best actors = ha love this idea, but often the publicity would ruin the it...
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_munt_
_munt_ 12 years ago
i love this post. very stimulating. keep it up man
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VickyGoth
VickyGoth 12 years ago
Im so glad i met all Linx, fey and you. Your intellectual conversations makes this place more than a porn site
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Nazru
Nazru Publisher 12 years ago
By all means go ahead hk. I appreciate your correspondence, and like i said before, i just write information. Actors and sentient beings are good and well i suppose. Perhaps social networks should have an oscar night, to award the best actors. And a thief is only a thief when he is caught.
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hk55
BTW

excuse me nazru, seems the site has problems with
PMs and your locked, so If I need to write a comment x you, I'll check this blog!

I'm planning to defriend people, is the reason
because I avoid to add new friends in my "box".
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hk55
I mean also a verified member could be something else.
Because I'm a thief and I use PMs to sell
my stolen jewels.

Impossible?

Anyway, xham is a big role game, just we have to
remember a character needs an actor and the actor
is a true sentient.
Despite his role.
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Nazru
Nazru Publisher 12 years ago
A comment is a comment. There is no right or wrong way for different people to process the information given. The purpose of information is primarily to INFORM afterall. Nothing more. People should know what their surroundings in here is like, just as in real life when you moved to another environment. You become AWARE of your surroundings.
Besides, the topic about Personas is well covered in this very good yellow book anyway: "Social Networking, For Dummies".
I just simplify the contents into a small blog. Check it for yourselves, except you have to pay and some author will call you a dummy. I give what i know for free. Go figure.
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feydancer
feydancer 12 years ago
Sigh.. He was talking about personas, dear boy, verified profiles is a whole other bag of nuts i should wager :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:
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hk55
You forgot verified profiles.
I cheated everyone!
I sent a photo of my cousin!
Ah,Ah!
I'm joking!
Is a friend of mine!
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feydancer
feydancer 12 years ago
True, and drats, i wanted to post bloody gorgeous unicorns XD
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MagicSticky
MagicSticky 12 years ago
N i think u is right very coooool mothafucking blogs man
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MagicSticky
MagicSticky 12 years ago
Da guy below is totally missing your point. Go fuck a real girl he meets somewhere on da streets if he wants genuine. He needs to realize u iz talking about internet social shizznits.
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VickyGoth
VickyGoth 12 years ago
LOL!! I love it
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pornoholicsxxx
Another great post
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