Control

Control, yes I crave it, want it, and get off on it. I was introduced to the BDSM scene over a dozen years ago by an old friend. While she was certainly a Dom, I was still feeling my way through. I believe it was my first experience with a younger woman that really cemented what really turns me on with the lifestyle. I'm not one to go to the fetish clubs, but I thought I'd just try my hand at it. It was uncomfortable and weird at first, which I noticed someone by the coner felt as if they felt the same way. It was funny, I try not and use the old "Hi, my name is" line, but I was really just looking to talk, get comfortable. That night was one ill never forget. Jen (The woman I met there) and I talked for three hours, laughing, sharing experiences, and just getting comfortable with each other. We left that night not having even kissed, but over the next six months I learned what turns a sub on (generally) and what really turns me on. For me I learned that the game is fun, but more fun with people you trust.