Shareing willing wife with a few good guys

We talked about sex with more than one guy for the first three years of marriage, and since I had been with a lot of girls,but she had only been with two guys before me and I felt like she deserved the fun.And from the first humble late night naked visits to a friend in the guest bed room. To our seasonal kinky week ends with me and a couple of old friends.There were occasional gang bangs.And well practiced fantasy ,games, and special rules.But we lost touch, and we just haven't found the right guys.